I recently slept with my 30 year old college proffesor, well I no longer take any of his classes but I used to. Anyways I know that we will never date and he isn't married and neither am I, but does anyone else think its wrong? I mean im 24 so the age things isnt too bad, its just that he is so hot! Has anyone else done this?
2006-09-30 01:32:34 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah D 3 in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
If you're not married, and he is not married, and you are not taking a class from him, then this is no big deal. You are both consenting adults.
I slept with my hot T.A. in college, and I think he thought I rocked in bed because he married me, and we've been married for 15 years.
2006-09-30 01:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a college professor I have to tell you that he is taking a lot of risk job wise, if the school find out he will be fired. As a human being, I see nothing wrong in your action, especially since you are not taking class with that person. You are both consenting adult, so you should be able to make your own decison. However, you might take some classes later with that person and that would create some issues for both of you. my advise: wait until you graduate if you want to further your relationship.
2006-09-30 01:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by ljosien 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 01:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you how many professors I know who are married to former students. It is wrong for a professor to sleep with a current student. It is wrong for him to sleep with a student who is his TA or Research Assistant. It is wrong if he is on her academic committee or has some influence over her.
But former students, consenting adults -- it could be wrong on some other level -- but there are no ethical problems because you are a former student.
The same would be true if you used to work for him, but transferred to a different department of the same company.
2006-09-30 05:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by Ranto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never done that. But since you're both adults of legal age and neither of you is married to anyone else, then what's the problem?
2006-09-30 01:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by Bluealt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know you will never date? Did he say so or do you not want to? You should guard your heart against sleeping with people you know you have no future with. Not because of religious reasons--but because it will harden your heart against something that may be true and real later...you might miss the relationship meant to be by hopping into bed with all the wrong people. No judgements on behavoir...honest.
2006-09-30 01:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by samantha h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only wrong if you think it is. live your life the way you want and don't ask others opinions of something you did. But because you are asking this question, you already know what you did was wrong, for if it wasn't, you would not have asked.
2006-09-30 01:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a big gap in age, dont see a huge issue with that. But i hope he doesn't teach English, cause i think he would be upset you didnt spell professor correct.
2006-09-30 01:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters what anyone else thinks about it, just what you think about it and it sounds like you think it was wrong. So why would you want to do something that makes you feel badly about yourself?
2006-09-30 01:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by jingles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yeah thats wrong, sex isnt sacred anymore. It seems like you can just open your legs to whomever you want even if you dont feel anything for them.
2006-09-30 02:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by maguathehearteater 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋