i have 3 best friends. Lets name them A,B,C and i'm D. Now picture this
A B and D have been getting closer and C disappears from the scene all-together. She becomes distant and hardly ever calls or hangs out. D talks to C about it and she says that she's been feeling left out and not a "part" of it anymore..she feels that shes not needed and that her absence will make no difference.
What should D do..i.e. what should i do? it's really killing me because im the only one who knows the truth
2006-09-30 01:20:43 · 9 answers · asked by sacred_90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well,first of all you must talk to C and tell her that nothing from what she said is true,next time when you and A and B go out,call C aswell,and begg her to come with you.You can also tell A and B about it,so they know it aswell,and try the three of you to convice C that she is important like anyother of you.talking is the only solution.find out the reason why she feels left out,and try not to do this again.
Maybe C is the one who doesn`t want to hang out with you anymore,have you considered that?maybe she doesn`t like one of you,has she got other friends?
Maybe it`s just that she really feels left out,and you can only change this by giving C more attention.
Good Luck
2006-09-30 01:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was kind of like C, so you have to tell A and B wat's going on so they can know, they'll understand.....and C you can't disappear all the time but being that D is a good friend; you have to show that affection to C that you're here for her and maybe A and B will notice as well.
2006-09-30 01:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by ladi_c224 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be two reasons for this
EITHER C is not at all interested in you 3 (A B D )
OR
C feels that she is avoided by u 3
So what u all 3 have to do is to hang out with C
give her more importance in the group
allow her to take decisions abt where to go, what shud we do ......
may be that she feels much better now with u ALL
ALL THE BEST
MAKING RELATION IS EASY
MAINTAINING RELATION IS VERY DIFFICULT .............
2006-09-30 01:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by Satish B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D should tell A and B to make C feel in again, i'm like C, always left out,C is sad so A B should make C happy by being together again
2006-09-30 01:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by ##$SoulStryker$## 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D should speak to C about the problem. D should give C opportunities to hang out with A and B. D should maintain regular contact with C.
2006-09-30 01:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by Brown Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you sould try and get A and B and go talk to her she may be haveing some diffulcties in her life like her family or her boyfriend you never know she might be depresed so if you try this dont be unpatioent and dont go there buging her in case she is depressed
2006-09-30 01:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i always beleive that a good circle of friends never be too friends with one another otherwise the circle collapse. it's choice between friends and life that people need to respect other people's decision.
2006-09-30 01:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Marlon Yahoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently C is jealous. Why don't you invite her to hang out with A B and D?
2006-09-30 01:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by cb56br 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're friends are likely having issues because of their names, I wouldn't like being called A, B, C or D
2006-09-30 01:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋