advice needed?

Question

i am a 32 year old man.i was born without male genetalia. as my father had the same problem, my doctor has told me it is likely this condition is hereditary. i don't want any kids incase we have boys but my wife thinks this is unfare as they could be girls. any advice????

Answer 1

i had the same problem a number of years back.but after alot of soul searching and constant nagging from the wife i decided to give the wife what she wanted.We now have 3 children,all males,and ALL were born without genetalia but that doesn't bother us,but what bothers us that they all have become Glasgow Rangers supporters i think that is a serious side effect of the condition,luckily i did not have this side effect.If you require any help then we have set up a world-wide support group which can give you guidance and support.you can find us at the address below.

Good luck and God bless

Juan Kerr

Answer 2

It might be because you are less threatening when you are attached, so they ACT more comfortable. Most girls are chicken people always seem to want what they cant have and because girls get turned on by men who already have girls around them or have a girl friend.
that's why girls are never satisfied and often end up alone. If you are in a relationship then is seems that you are good and decent. Good boyfriend material maybe excellent husband material. That is what every girl is looking for. But if you are not in a relationship it's like ok what's wrong with him?, Why doesn't he have a girlfriend? You understand. it's like buses mate, whenever you want one, there isn't one, then three come at once.
People find curious a thing that they cannot have. What is there? What treasure am I missing out on?
The greatest success I've ever had with women is when I sent the signal...I'm not looking. People are naturally curious. Be a mystery.
Don't even try to understand women. It is a futile task. Just enjoy them when you can and avoid them like the plague other times. I use the wide birth therory when dealing with women .

Answer 3

Maybe you could adopt or hit up a sperm bank as alternatives.

If the condition is correctible I dont see why you shouldnt want to have children with your wife. How did you and your dad cope? Is there a lot of issues you still carry around? Was surgery required and did it work satisfactorily-If your wife loves you and wants to have your children no matter what you have a good woman. She deserves to be a mom if that's what she wants. Good luck to you- a man is a man on the inside, not just the out. If you had a son, this is what you would tell him. Dont be afraid.

Answer 4

I don't understand how you can have kids without male genetalia. Maybe you just don't have gonads? I do understand your desire to not have males, so as not to pass on your hereditary condition. Maybe you should try adopting. You could give a wonderful home to a very needy and loving female child.

Answer 5

Have kids if you want to keep your wife. Deal with any problems as they come. Can I ask how you are able to have children without male genitalia. Second, your wife knew of your problem you should have talked about the kids before you got married. Is adoption and option?

Answer 6

No matter what the sex of any children in the future, you will love them no matter what. Research as much material as possiable and dont ruin your relationship with your wife.

Answer 7

whoa, never heard of such a thing....have no advice other than you got married to someone who appreciates you as you are, who's to say your children wouldn't find the same. We are all different, that's what makes the world go round'.

Answer 8

I think your wife is right.It is unfair and selfish on your part to deney your wife the miracle of birth.She may never forgive you later on in your relationship with her. And she may never tell you how she feels.