even if they are best friends?
Recently, i gave my name in to participate in a competition and when i told my best friend..i expected her to be happy for me but she was jealous and changed the topic.
Also, i recently discovered my knack for drawing and another on of my best friends started drawing too...n showing it off...i dont get it. i love both of them very much..what the hell is the problem?
2006-09-30 01:08:44 · 15 answers · asked by sacred_90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is why I always had more male friends then female...It was like that in jr. high, highschool, in my twenties, and even now in my 40's..most women I have met are phoney, two faced, judgemental, competitive etc..women don't like if your a nice person and people like you...they check you out to see if you measure up to them...In the workforce, most of them are bioches who love to find fault in you that they can go "tattle" to the boss or gossip about....I work at a place where we don't have any of that "chick sh**" thank god, cause I can't stand it, and I hate DRAMA!!!!!...and some women only feel alive if they are in chaos or cause it!!!...
2006-09-30 01:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there is no such thing as always...not all people always behave the same way. Secondly, girls are taught at a young age that they should look pretty( sugar and spice ) and that they should compete with peers based on looks. Later in life, they transfer that to talent and brains. Be patient with your friends. They are simply insecure and feel that somehow, you pose a threat simply by telling them about your talent. Have they told you about their own talents? If not, it sounds like you are the one who might unknowingly be the instigator. ( No offense intended )
2006-09-30 01:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lois L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes girls like to compete with eachother when it comes to dancing, drawing, competitions, etc. and they feel jealous because they can't do the same things like other girls can do, so they try to get into the things that you can do and try to make it 10 times better, so basically they try to find ways to look good for other people, for attention, and for themselves, so they can like the attention.
2006-09-30 01:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by ladi_c224 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we all have that tendency to get jealous of other people's successes... we all have our times where it just gets to us. I'm sure it'll pass. However, also consider if you've been showing off your newfound gifts as well. It may not seem like it, but you never know. Often we don't realize how far we're taking something.
If they still get jealous of everything that happens to you, maybe you should re-evaluate why they are your friends. If they are always making you feel bad about having special talents, what's good with that?
2006-09-30 01:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by NymphGirl22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is often that way with girls. They are very competitive. If you are in high school, do you see girls in your circle breaking up with a boy and one of the other girls in your circle start going out with the guy? That happens a lot. It's because girls are very competitive among each other. I think its just nature....but don't get upset with your friends and break up the friendship. Try talking to them and telling them that it bothers you somewhat. Try to work it out with them. That way you won't break up your friendships.
2006-09-30 01:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by momofericha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always yes it's true.
i've seen so many friends of my ex-girl friends trying to hit at me or trying to hit at me when the relationship with their friend was over, that it is hard to trust all women at first.
just remember, that once you have a boyfriend, your only friends would be those who are also with somebody. flee like the pleague your girl or boyfriends who are alone, if you are in a couple, as they will just mean trouble.
not that your girl friends will try to have sex with your man..not always anyhow...they will use other subtle techniques to make your man feel that they are better or even that you are not so good, give out little secrets or whatever...women are not to be trusted when they see one of their girlfriends happy with a nice and decent guy. always remember that.
it's nothing to do with boys or gals...
it's just female and human nature..
2006-09-30 01:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
competeing is ggod amkes u progress in life but being jealous is not good. having a friendly competetion is adequate and mederate
maybe ur friends wants to make ur their role model and started doing the same stuffas u do, thats called copying
2006-09-30 01:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there is always some kind of competition between the ladies be it at werk , relationship, school etc.or anywhere u go. and even as good fren theres always an underlying form of jealously between each other even if we dont realise it.. but den i think as a fren we should support her and not get it in the way of frenship. so as for yr frens if they continue doing it ,, they are not yr true frens afterall.. good luck in yr competition..
2006-09-30 01:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes its true, it just depends on how competitive you are. like i am really super conpetetive and i hate to lose ANYTHING and my best friend is the same way. but we dont like that get in the way of our friendship. i htink oyu should talk to them about it and tell you that it bugs you a little and that you would aprettiate if they tried to stop a little
2006-09-30 01:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by sarah m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:07:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋