2006-09-30 00:24:47 · 11 answers · asked by S =] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all you need to ask yourself if you love him, if you really do, then if I were you I would think about the situation he is in, think about how much he probably misses you or being back home, and how difficult it must be for him.
There are several things you might do that will help you pass the time and would mean a lot to him.
As far as I know there is a computer available for the guys to use, so you could send him greeting cards, personal emails keeping him up to date on what's happening at home etc.
You can send him letters with recent photos of you and the family and, litely mist it with your favorite perfum so he can have it close to him as a reminder of you. You could bake him cookies and make a "goodie box" with all kinds of treats in it to pass out to his friends.
A lot of the guys and gals may not have family to send them stuff so you could make more than just your boy friend very happy.
I could go on and on, but I think you get the idea.
If you would take your eyes off of yourself and think of him and others, first off it will make you feel good and secondly it would help you pass the time because I think once you start sending him things he will really love it and will want you to keep it up and so will his friends.
You do this, and before you know it he will be back home and in your arms.
I pray that God will bless you and put His loving arms around your boy friend and bring him safely back to you.
I hope this helps a little.
2006-09-30 01:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by yakity_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a Veteran myself I ask this. Why do you need encouraging? The man is fighting for his country which includes YOU. Did you need encouraging when he was here before he was deployed? Do you not love him, or what was your purpose being with him while he was here? I will say this though. If you are going to go behind his back and fool around, DO NOT TELL him in a letter. I know it is wrong to do so, BUT if you tell him you do not want to be with him anymore and you have found someone else, he will NOT be able to do his job there as his mind will be on the problem YOU have caused and he may end up getting killed while in action over there. How would you like that on your mind the rest of your life? Think about it.
2006-09-30 00:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 06:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz he is obviously a soldier. and if you don't wait for him once he's back, how do you know what would be his reaction? after all having been thus exposed to war will make any man into a somewhat of a violent person who could have wierd reactions or even kill somebody under anger.
I would adivse you to wait or else he may just turn up someday and make minced meat of you if he finds you in bed with another guy.
if you really need to run around with other men, for god's sake don't do it with his friends or you'll make things worse.
I'm plainly giving you different exemples of real cases of couples in which the man was in that damm war in Irak.
take care, best of luck and hold on.
2006-09-30 00:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's called Fidelity.
takes effort that Only U can supply.
think of the +'s not the -'s
think how would U feel in his situation.
if U get bored 1 day U could always write a long scathing letter 2 GW & a love letter 2 UR man.
don't get mad, get motivated.
2006-09-30 00:28:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW two years is a long time, you are not going to see him at all???? is he in the forces? well that is going to be tough but phone calls and letters are all you are going to have. it depends how serious you are, if you love him then you will wait, you wont be tempted to stray. yes its going to be tough, trust me I know I am in the same situation, but if it is meant to be then its meant to be, he will be worth the wait and one important thing to remember is its as hard for him as it is for you so don't give him a hard time when you do speak, that spoils the times you do have.you shouldn't really need encouragement to wait, if you do then this is not going to work. its tough its lonely its frustrating as all hell but if he is the one its worth it,.
2006-09-30 00:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hard I've been in Iraq for 13months and well my girl wasn't able to Wait just do him a favour if you do slip dint tell him
2006-09-30 00:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea goodluck with that. if i knew you i would try to get in your pants as soon as he leaves. i like challenges. have you ever seen Jarhead? ill be jody
2006-09-30 00:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in his position.If you love him, would you not want him to wait for you, especially since he is doing such an honorable job. Please be patient sweetheart, it will be worth it.
2006-09-30 00:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by James M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some class....he's fighting for our country.
2006-09-30 00:27:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋