2006-09-29 23:48:08 · 14 answers · asked by hemu_hemant3333 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
MARRIAGE IS A CONTROL ON THE FREEDOM OF THE MAN WHETHER IT IS LOVE OR ARRANGE.
2006-09-30 17:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have been married under both circumstances then you cannot answer this question.
Those that do arranged marriages will say their way is the best and those that only marry for love will say their way is.
Being from a country that doesnt do arranged marriages of course I will say .. marry for love. But I know alot of people that come from countries where this is acceptable and they tell me that its a good way to get married. I wont argue the point as it all depends where you were brought up.
As I see it a lot of the marriages that were based on love end in divorce and the arranged marriages stay together... so maybe arranging is a good idea.
2006-09-30 06:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that either one could be good. Good marriages are always built on love and not lust. Often people feel that they are falling in love but in less than three years they divorce. In the West two in every three marriages end up in divorce. That means that for every white wedding with all the trappings and all the expectations, two of them will be so upset with each other they will never want to see each other again. If that is the end of love marriages then I think something else must be at stake. To me the marriages that last are ones that are based on hard work. Love that is a choice and willingness to work on all issues that come up.
So to me, no matter if the marriage is arranged or started from "love" the thing that will make it survive is sacrifice, submission and hard work.
2006-09-30 07:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by revlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think it both.
If you have love marriage, then you will have the wife you love.
If you have arranged marriage, then your other things in life like finacial and social life would be good because parents carefully look at those matters.
I would wait for true love but if I don't come across the woman I love, then I will do what my parents want me to do.
I think arranged marriages last. The parents who have gone through life and are experienced will know what type of a girl you should marry. Its not that bad.
They choose the girl and you can always talk to her and decide whether or not to marry her.
Think should trust your parents
2006-09-30 06:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel love marriage because i have seen the life after arranged marriage.moreover spending some time or understanding him or her before marriage is very important.
2006-10-01 14:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by simplewife20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a person who u love and who loves u then get ur marrige arranged !! so simlpe...! it's called love-arrannged marrige
2006-09-30 07:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by twinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every marriage is good. yes! it is not imporatnt u have done love or arrange marriage. it is more imporatant what u are doing for your good relationg ship. every marriage required some things for thier best performance those things are
1. honesty for each other
2. love for each other
3. trust on each other
4. friendship for each other
5.freedom for each other
and the last one is always and in every conditions sorrow or happy SMILES : ) for each other.
all these can convert every marriage in love. and LOVE is the key point for each marriage.
bye tc with smiles
2006-09-30 06:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by poojacssingh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love marriage is 'perfect suicide' where as arrange marriage is a ' planned murder '.
2006-09-30 06:53:43 · answer #8 · answered by Raj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love marriage
1. They are experienced.
2. You see only the beauty and nature with your eyes
they see these with their experienced eyes
3. When you born, they have a dream to marry you and this dream is older than your age.If you want love marraige, you break their dream
4. You thought that love is happening, they thought that Love Is Blind.
5. When you love, you see your girl friend's nature and qualities related to her, but parents see her with her family and back grounds
6. For you it is bond of two hearts, for them it is bond of two families and societies.
7. For you love is heart of life, for them love is part of life.
8 you think that life can be sacrificed for love and they think vice verca
9. You fight for your love and they fight for their love i.e. you
WHICH LOVE IS STRONGER AND DEEPER, HE WINS
Best of Luck for your love
2006-09-30 07:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Naaz Khan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love your arranged girl or boy
2006-09-30 06:53:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋