and she never did anything about it, do you think you would lose some respect for her?
2006-09-29 21:41:15 · 34 answers · asked by BWLJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Good grief people, its a hypothetical question. Quit trying to act like a killed the baby Jesus.
2006-09-29 21:47:44 · update #1
Really, you girls trying to call me out are ridiculous. Its only a god damn question.
2006-09-29 21:55:01 · update #2
Absolutely not, as rape is a terrible thing to happen to someone and everyone handles traumatic experiences differently!
2006-09-29 21:43:32 · answer #1 · answered by OneRunningMan 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 06:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by titman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetical .. ha ..
I felt really strange when a girl told me her story. Initally I was really stunned. And I thought it through and learned more about the dynamic. I felt she did the best she knew how at the time which is the most anyone can do really.
Women never get over being raped ..they have various degrees of recovery and most often don't deal well with guys ever after than.
2006-09-29 22:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why should you lose respect for her? Did she not have the courage to tell you? Doing "something" about it is not always as easy as people want to believe. The fact that she can talk about it and trusts you enough with it, is a big step in her healing process. Maybe you're not "man" enough to accept what she's been through, and hopefully you won't harm her more by berating her for not doing "something" about it. Why don't you encourage her to get some counseling? That's what a supportive partner does. So, maybe you don't respect yourself, and are in no place to question her decisions regarding a traumatizing situation!
2006-09-29 21:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, but you shouldn't give her any more repsect any time soon. Rape can be scary sure, but if you don't something about for so long it'll leave you traumatized. I'm not saying that telling somene will fix it all, I'm saying it will bring Justice. But since your girlfriend didn't do anything about you should probably avoid the subject. Avoid the awkwardness and stuff, talking about will not do any good but bring back...memories. Also, don't suggest thearpy, it never works...well most of the time. Just don't mention, don't think you're being a jerk for losing respect for her. So whatever other people say about blah this you should be there for her blah blah that you jerk blah blah junk, just continue life, past is the past, but in conclusion I guess you shouldn't lose respect for her. past is the past. its not something she can just forget, but its something that should stay buried in the ground forever...but if this happened just a few months ago then she SHOULD be doing soemthing about it.
2006-09-29 22:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO!!. That is no way to treat a woman. Some women it completely traumatizes them to the point that they just don't do any thing. Sometimes they don't know what to do. Think about it this way' What if some girl that was stronger than you attacked you' threw you down on the bed and shoved a broom stick up your a-s-s so hard that it busted you up on the inside. What would you do? How would you feel?
2006-09-29 21:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one but I don't think I'd lose respect for not doing anything. It's easy to say what one would do until they are put into that situation and you will never know what she went through both physically and mentally during that tragedy.
2006-09-29 21:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do realize how many rapes occur with out anyone knowing it, its not unusual for a rape victim to not tell anyone or report it cause in some circumstances some feel responsible and some are just a victim of a abused relationship no i would say not to worry about her past but help her through it and just let her know you understand and love her for who she has become. looking back now will only cause pain for both of you. good luck
2006-09-29 21:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how she was raped.. Lets say she was raped in an ally way, by some stranger, den i'll be veryu upset if she didnt do anything. If it was one of her "friends" or "boyfriends" that "raped" her, den i'll rather get behind the whole story. Sometime girls say they got raped, and in the end, thats what they wanted, that might be why she never did anything, cause she might of been just as guilty as her ex-boyfriend who "raped" her.
2006-09-29 21:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by Pyp 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, because it wasn't her fault and it was unwanted sex , no consent from her. Also, she's probably scared that if she tells, she might get hurt, or she feels guilty of telling other people about it, as well as psychological and mental effects on her. Not only i don't lose some respect for her, but i'll try to keep an eye on her as much as i can for she's my gf and i care about her.
2006-09-29 21:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by themysterious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would u loose respect for her u said RAPED didnt u instead of loosing respect this is what u should do:
-dont remind her of the ordeal ever
-if she remebers it on her own be there for her, tell her it was not her fault n everything is gonna be ok coz u love her regardless
2006-09-29 21:48:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋