My man n i have been together for over 4 1/2 yrs on n off. Before we got back together this last time i found out that he is having a baby with someone else. I never liked the girl and never will. We love eachother very much and want to be together forever. I just dont know how to get past this.
2006-09-29 20:33:03 · 13 answers · asked by rainbowbright 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You never will. The child is part of him, and always will be.
You have to except that, and quite possibly, you both can make a go of it. Talk to him about it.
2006-09-29 21:09:37 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your willing to forgive and forget and accept it all then you'll Never get passed it. If you can't see that happening then maybe it's time to throw in the towel no matter how much you love eachother. Sad to say but when the time comes his child with this other girl is always gonna come before you. Your needs, your wants, your desires, are you ready for that and all the baby mama drama? if not then I would let things go now and move on with someone who's gonna be true and real and with just you no matter what
2006-09-30 03:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Shortie♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of course you dont like her and never will. only because she was your ex when the two of you broke up. The biggest mistake was taking him back after you new he had another chick pregnant.
. you seen each other on and off for over four years, and now that he has someone else pregnant, you just realize how much you love each other.
wake up...... welcome to the world of child support..... you can not get passed this ok. he is going to be a father, and he has every right to be there for his child and for the mother.
you need to put aside your hate for this women, and let go of your bf so he can be their for his child when the baby is born....
your bf obviously is not smart enough to do the right thing, so you have to..
2006-09-30 03:42:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I understand I have to tell u what my mom told me: You just told me u both love each other very much, even though u guys were not seeing each other,.... would u have done that? Had sex with another man? So, u have 2 options: 1. Stay with him and work thru the future problems,.... crazy babys mama,.... new baby.....
Or 2. Walk away with dignity
In my case, I choose option#2
2006-09-30 03:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by Justme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him-he got another woman knocked up and you still wanna stay with him?And you don't like the girl he got preggers?All three of you need Dr. Phil....or Jerry Springer.
2006-09-30 03:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by the_silver_tin_man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg....... idk exactly what u should do cos i dont know the exact relationship & all, but if he cheated on u, and if youve been on and off those are signs of a not so good relationship, u might love him, but u have to think beyond that, if u cant get passed it now it might just be 1 of those things youll never get passed, & you shouldnt stay with him if thats the case, idk, but in my opinion someone who loves you wouldnt do a thing like that.....good luck try to think w/out letting your emotions get the best of u, alot of girls use the excuse "but i love him" way 2 much....
2006-09-30 03:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by dapoet89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and want to be with him better get used to him screwing around. If you don't want to tolerate that then dump him. But if you choose to stay with him don't whine when he sleeps around. You have all the information you need.
2006-09-30 03:42:43 · answer #7 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding right ? It's time to move out of the trailer !
2006-09-30 03:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by g_man 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why?? Perhaps you don't want a baby.. have u ever talked over that subject???
2006-09-30 03:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
moveon this will never end and will cause too much heartache,pain and money
2006-09-30 03:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Akida 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋