Am pregnant (8weeks) with another mans baby who wants me to have an abortion and the only thing i need now is someone to just hold my hand and tell me everythign will be ok, there is this other guy who is interested in me and i dont know what to do (he doesnt know abt the pregnancy). What should i do.
2006-09-29 20:09:56 · 25 answers · asked by Bab-gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First, stop acting as if your goal in life is to be an ejaculation receptacle. Keep you legs closed until someone sucks it up and marries you.
Try not to kill the baby as you attempt to get a grip that you are no longer the most important person in the world.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-29 20:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by An Unhappy Yahoo User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to realize, that is your baby too and the final decision to carry it to term or not is your choice. There is alot of controversy about when a fertilized egg becomes a baby. I think it is as real as you make it. If the father of the child does not want to be involved you can't make him. You can only make him legally responsible. Do you really want to have an abortion just because a guy you just started dating wants you to? How long will he be there in your life? A child will be with you until death do you part- unconditional love. Hold on to the things that last. Maybe you should take this time to yourself and get yourself together. Look at this child as already being real and ask yourself if you would leave your child to be with someone else. The answer is in your heart. Whatever you decide, do it for you, not for someone else. If the other man wants to be with you, he will have to want to be with every part of you. Love all of you or none of you. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-09-29 20:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Fuel632 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy that likes you that you are pregnant. If he stays, great. If he bails, that'll work too. Either way, keep your baby because he or she is a part of you. If the biological father doesn't want any part of the baby, that's terrible, but not the end of the world. Just make sure his money is a part of the baby's life.
Besides, the other guy may be able to handle the fact that you are pregnant. Do you think he would want to be the person who will be there for you and your baby? In any case, be straight forward from the beginning, that way you will not stress over secrets and deception.
You'll be okay. Always seek those who support you. Not those who condemn or judge.
2006-09-29 20:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by ihaftaknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have the abortion because it is murder, and tell the guy that is interested in you that you are pregnant. If he runs away then it wasn't meant to be in the first place. Women raise children alone all the time now days! You can do it to, if that is the only way. You will find someone, rather it be the baby's father, the guy you are interested in, or someone new. Just keep the baby, it deserves a chance at life please! Good Luck!
2006-09-29 20:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are not romatantically involved with the guy who is interested in you,you and the baby's father need to talk about what you are going to do with the baby when it's born.If you want to keep it or give it up for adoption,that's fine but don't get an abortion because how would you feel if your mom had an abortion with you?
2006-09-29 20:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by the_silver_tin_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, your having a baby and now you are going to have to find a man that will not only love you but also love your child. My man of 4 1/2 yrs is having a baby with another woman it's hard but i'm still here standing by him.
2006-09-29 20:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by rainbowbright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The new b/f has a right to know what he is getting into and the longer you wait the more chance he might react unfavorably. Second, how do you have a baby who will require all your time and start a new relationship with a guy who will want all your time?
You need to slow it down and figure out what you want and where your going.
2006-09-29 21:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you this, the father of that child is not being a man if he is trying to tell you what to do with your body. And reguardless what any doctor tells you, that is already a child inside of you. Hearbeat starts at 6 weeks after conception. This other guy who wants to be with you, be honest with him, tell him, and if he does not stick around, what good would he have been anyway? I promise you, keep the baby, things will work out, your life is precious and God loves you.
2006-09-29 20:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the true that your pregnant and also tell him what the baby's daddy want you to do, if his a real man he will hold your hand and tell you everything will be OK. If you live in southern California and you need a friend to protect you and your baby I am here girl and don't trip girl everything is going to be okay. LifeAsDreamer@yahoo.com
2006-09-29 20:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by BABY LOONEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, pray and believe in Jesus. Second, have your baby. Men come and go but your child is yours. You can be strong and handle having and raising your baby. I have a regret and it never goes away. My daughter just turned eighteen and I raised her alone. She graduated from high school this year and she leaves for the Air Force boot camp on Tuesday. I did it though faith. Blessings and I will pray that you make the right decision.
2006-09-29 20:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by datalov3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋