my story is,i was soo happy i was living with my aunte and i was getting to be with my bf more than i ever have before then my MOTHER made me move back and now i hardly see the love of my life i hate this i love him soooo much and i cant even be with him its sooo hard and i blame and hate my mother for all of this i feel so suficated and i dunno what to do any psycological help??? and im also very emotional now i cry so often more like evryday and i go to the most worst schools ever its un-manageable i hate it!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-29 20:09:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
everyone is saying oh it'll be ok but its not okay he's the love of my life my first! my only i loveeee himmm!!! i cant live this way i hate where i live im so unhappy he's my happiness and the more im away frm him the more it hurts and it does have an effect on my everyday life!!!
2006-09-29 20:14:54 · update #1
for those of you that are asking no my mother doesnt know and she doesnt because she would never understand. and the sku conc. is retarded ive tried and he's not someone i feel comfortable with him and this whole long distance relationship isnt going good it jst makes both more unhappy with life i dunno jst confusing!!!!
2006-09-29 20:32:57 · update #2
Before you go totally ballistic tell your mom how you feel.
2006-09-29 20:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well we were always told by our parents and have passed on the advice to our kids--life isn't always fair, honey. The fact that you are crying so much of the time says that you are not very mature. Since when has crying ever helped? If you are in high school, study hard to make something of yourself instead of hating the school. And you will make new friends. Enjoy the time you are able to spend with your boyfriend but realize that you do not need a boyfriend to be a complete person. I guess it's a part of growing up.
2006-09-30 03:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so why did your mom made you move back? maybe she sees something that would not be good for you. but maybe your mom sees that you are spending too much time with your bf rather than with school.
i can tell with your question that you are so attached to your bf now. and it seems that you are not even a bit focused on your studies.
sorry for saying this. but your mom is right for doing it. i don't think she hates your bf. she just wants you to focus on your studies first. she only wants you to have a nice & successful life after you finish school. and that includes a happy family. at the rate you are going now, i doubt you would be able to finish school if you continue to be always with your bf.
look if you really love your bf and he does also to you, then being separated a bit won't stop you from loving each other. rather you can use it to prove to your mom that you can & will finish school & be successful afterwards. make him your inspiration for studying hard. i promise, your mother will even be the one to push you to always be with your bf.
it's not the end of the world. you are still young. you will realize that your mom was right all along when you have your own kids. it happened to me before.
2006-09-30 03:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only feel like he is your one and only because he was your first. You are young and you may feel like he is the only one for you but there will be many more to come. I know you may not believe me but it is the truth. Your mom is only trying to do what she thinks is the best for you. Don't hate her for that. She did not have any intentions of trying to ruin your life. I am kind of going through what you are going through right now. I will be leaving my love in two months. It will be hard and I will miss him but slowly we will grow distant and it will become easier for the both of us to let go. For now we just try to make the best of it we can. You should do that too. Everything will get better and in time you will find someone new.
2006-09-30 03:20:59 · answer #4 · answered by The All Knowing Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like your mother has wedged herself in between you and your boyfriend, but does she realize it? Have you told her? does your mom know about your relationship and your love for your boyfriend? If she does not know that you have such great feelings for him then you should tell her. If she does already know and just does not care and does not let you see him, then you need to ask her why she is keeping you apart from him. Either way, you need to talk to your mom and tell her how much you miss your boyfriend, how much you love him, and if she cannot accept it that you have love in your heart for him, then maybe you could at least have a relationship over the phone with him til you get to see him. I know this situation is very hard cause most parents do not want to see their children in a mature adult relationship, parents do not want to hear their children say they are *in love*. But you can't help the way you feel about this boy, you love him, you miss him, and you want to be with him..so just explain this to your mom and hoperfully she'll understand. Maybe you can get a few trips over to your aunt's house and there you can visit with your boyfriend. In the meantime, you can e-mail him, write to him, call him, etc, etc. Keep in touch with him every way possible til you can see him physically.
2006-09-30 03:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Daft One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You do not go to the worst schools imaginable!
Romania or Africa would give you a good lesson on school quality. At least you are not worried about soldiers coming in and chopping off your arms after a good RAPE!
Since you mentioned school, are you under 16?
If so, then what you wrote is baseless!
2006-09-30 03:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is like war:easy to begin but very hard to stop.
The beauty and intensity of love are shown as the irradiating glory
of starlight and sunlight in this dark world.
2006-09-30 03:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by mada m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO ME A FAVOR. GET TO THE school counselor. THATS WHAT THEY ARE THERE 4.YOU WILL BE SURPRISED AT THEIR answers. CAN YOU CALL YOUR LOVE? LOOK HANG in there and go to church,.G0d can turn this mess around 4 you ok? praying 4 you . huggs star
2006-09-30 03:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still feel this way five years from now ill really consider answering your question...............but for now dont make yourself miserable just take it one day at a time .............life has a way of changing things when your not looking ,thats the beauty of life ,is that everyday brings new possibilities............
2006-09-30 03:21:22 · answer #9 · answered by gry w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 choices, come to my house, I help you. Or, contemplate suicide. I don't recommend the latter option.
2006-09-30 03:11:31 · answer #10 · answered by jasontogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋