My wife and I have been together since the summer before my Senior year in High School. We dated for 4 years and have been maried for 7. We have a two year old daughter and my wife wants to get pregnant again.
The question I have she only wants sex when she wants to try and get pregnant. I have a strong sex drive and it is difficult for me when she is never wants to make love.
How do I get her to have sex with me more? She gained weight from being pregnant the first time. I know she is self contious and I have been trying to support her with words of encouragement.
Does anyone have a solution?
Thank you!!
2006-09-29 19:09:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lol i love it, cuz i got the same thing happen to me, ok my girl is very self contious wit her body also, she has gained weight and thinks she is unattractive, is this the same with u?? ok, heres wat u do, the next time u make luv, kiss all over her body b4 entering, i mean ever inch, very seductively, tell her shes beautiful and caress her body and tell her u luv her wen u enter, kiss her neck and caress her breast, man, just kiss her everywhere and tell her u luv her body, try takin her clothes off 4her and kiss after every piece of clothing
2006-09-29 19:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by toros stud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not say age but ..after 12 years..yall have done GREAT..not alot of people can say that anymore.I am an old foke and what I can see.as much as you say ..she gained weight from 1st time.yes..she is ...feeling blue about her looks..taken over by baby blues ,at home i suppose..want sex..does not happen..you say you encourage..sometimes you guys do more damage trying to encourage when you you should ..hold. love...do not think there is anything wrong with her or you outside of ..you are MALE..
GET SOMEONE YALL CAN TRUST and take that woman AWAY>>>>>GO MAKE LOVE...God gives the rest...be a MAN and she will be your woman again GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-09-29 19:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by clcschiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL you what dr sini did in california. HIS wife was over 300 pounds. EVEry evening they took a walk.THEY decided to give up all deserts. about 1 1/2 to 2 years later she hadlost 150 pounds. SHE looked great. ANd the bed room picked up too. So good luck.
2006-09-29 19:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that your a guy and you need more sex than her and protect yourself now, when you want kids you won't protect yourself and you'll have kids. If this doesn't work tell her that you can't get so much sex as you wanted but TELL HER THAT SHE DOESN'T HAVE A PROBLEM (SHE DOESN'T GIVE YOU ENOUGH SEX) and try to convince her that this will be good for your relationship.
2006-09-29 19:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Eri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean the house for her bring her some flowers if she likes them make dinner for her or take her out for dinner and find someone to watch your little one complement her on how nice she looks I hope I help you out some maybe than she will give you some sex .
2006-09-29 19:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by tootles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the local drug store and look in the vitamin section their are different vitamins she can take to help with her sex drive.
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Be romantic do the candle light thing, take a bath together or buy her something pretty to wear.
2006-09-29 19:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man tells me he need sex more than I do. He says he will take care of himself. This turns me on when I am at work thinking about what he doing at home. Maybe you need to explain to her that men are different than women. cuz they are! I think sometimes that is why men cheat. Maybe I am wrong.
2006-09-29 19:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by pearlshell2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two solutions one is to masterbate the rest of your life, and the second one is go and find someone who actually enjoys making love ,
2006-09-29 19:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that sex is out of love...and the fruit of it is a child/ren. You can not have just sex to have children.
2006-09-29 19:12:34 · answer #9 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Atmosphere and Chemistry.
2006-09-29 19:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by paulina83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋