I dont have time to hate.
2006-09-29 19:06:46
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answer #1
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answered by Apollo 7
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I seem to have mixed reactions to this question, and it may be b/c I perceive there to be two questions that are blended into what appears to be one question:
Question 1) Do you hate people; and
Question 2) Which ones?
If life teaches us anything, it is not to "hate," because hatred disempowers one in the long-term. It certainly seems natural--normal--to hate others, and it doesn't take much to stimulate that emotion. I tend to agree with one of the answers on the board already that there is something to hate in just about everyone, if only we look hard enough. It also seems true that we hate in others, what we fear most within ourselves, b/c we tend to look for ourselves in others for good or for ill.
Hatred tends to destroy not the one(s) who are the object of hatred, but the one(s) who harbor it--but it takes time. Actually, it sets up a kind of "lose-lose" situation, as the harm done is insidious and mutually destructive in most cases. On the mega level, hatred (particularly shared hatred) leads to violence and war, but it is a way to stay connected. After all we still relate to enemies as well as friends, just in a different way. So, maybe as we become more alienated, we see a greater need for, or justification for, our hatred.
I know that it's your question, and you phrase it the way you want. I would be more interested in a somewhat different twist on the question, such as how can I/we turn something so negative into something positive, and enable myself rather than disempower myself, by squandering precious time, energy and personal resources on something so worthless?
We can all justify our hatred toward anyone of our choosing, but can any of us challenge ourselves beyond its petty confines? I believe that is where human growth and potential lie, and the transformation that our society so desperately needs.
So, no I don't hate people; I just hope that I can find a way to cope effectively with the challenges that they bring to my awareness, and that I can grow from it, without causing harm to others.
2006-09-29 19:44:49
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answer #2
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answered by justinteim4 2
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I hate The Greedy Corporate Power whores who thirst for blood and oil...
I also hate the buttlicks who come from old money, and think they are cool just because they 're rich... add these to your list...
2006-09-29 19:14:19
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answer #3
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answered by Islander 4
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i don't hate people, i hate the actions people do.
like for instance, i went to apply for a job and while i was talking to the prospective employer, i asked if the restrooms and other work areas were handicap accessible and he did not give me an application to fill out. his action was he did not want to work with a handicap person.
like i say it is not the person, it is their actions they have toward others.
2006-09-29 19:11:46
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answer #4
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answered by sister cool breeze 4
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I get annoyed with the kind of people who Fuc*n SWEAR UP & DOWN, that they know about something, when they realy have NO freakn idea what the F*ck they are talking about. They just know what they heard from somewhere, and really thats it.
BUT THEY KNOW!
2006-09-29 19:51:14
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answer #5
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answered by Angel 5
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Self-absorbed people, those that know "what's right for you," people who don't listen--just jabber away, and those who think they're better than others. I guess I don't really hate them but I avoid them at all costs.
2006-09-29 19:11:56
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answer #6
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answered by phoenixheat 6
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dont delete!!! I cant stand liars, backstabbers, (a person who is a friend to all is a friend to none,) ..... cheaters, child abusers,chimos, rapist, murderers, drunks, druggies, rude ppl, players,rich ppl, and those who think they are better than the rest of us!
2006-09-29 19:11:43
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answer #7
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answered by Dragonflygirl 7
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i dont hate anyone, sure some people annoy me but i just try to find the right path for my life and find people who can give something to my personality.
The rest i just ignore and respect.
2006-09-29 19:10:26
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answer #8
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answered by Anonymous
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Self righteous prigs
Selfish people
Arrogant folks
Jealous people
2006-09-29 19:08:54
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answer #9
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answered by ThomasR 4
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I don't like whiners or people who can't take responsibility for their actions and want others to bail them out
2006-09-29 19:08:24
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answer #10
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answered by aliciarox 5
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I hate stupid people who are always spouting BS and they believe it to be factual when it isn't.
2006-09-29 20:19:49
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answer #11
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answered by princess_29_71 3
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