WHY did MY mom NOT abort ME as A FETUS?

Question

I am 14 and never had a girlfriend and am only 5'0!!! and I hate my mom for not aborting me as a fetus! I am a damaged fetus I do not deserve to live in a tall persons world!! I mean shorter people have less dates less kids less marrige less jobs less pay less everything and am never going to get tall!?!? or get a girlfriend I am just gonna be a virgin for my hole life!?! no one takes me suriously or looks at me with respect!?! I hate my life where can I get steralized because I dont want my kids to go through this when I marry some midget wife since thats all am gonna get probley any way bcuz am so short and I dont wana make them suffer in a tall persons world?!!? my mom is so stupid for not aborting me!!!!!

Answer 1

To answer your first question - Your mom did not abort you because she loves you, wanted you, had dreams and aspirations for you! Buddy, you are letting her down with that attitude of yours. Embrace the person that is you and learn to love yourself, only then will you learn that mom is one of the greatest people in the world! QUIT disrespecting her!

Answer 2

Honey, you still have a few more years till you will stop growing. I know you don't want to hear this, but be patient, it will come. I have this friend who went through the same thing you did. He was your age and going crazy because he was so small and worried about ever getting a girlfriend. Now he is 18 and so hott, he grew a little taller, he's maybe 5' 7", but it doesn't matter. He is confident and girls see that, not his height. Hang in there, high school can be VERY harsh and cruel, but it's only 4 years and then it's over.

Answer 3

you realize what? you're rather tripping,you will desire to be grateful to awaken to work out a clean day and to be healthful,there are some who're not as fortunate as you. you're basically 14 and already determining what you think of your life would be.Do you think of you are the only short individual interior the international? i'm short and that i'm not sitting right here complaining approximately it and that i've got been given young ones and that they've not experienced any issues and neither have I. you're incorrect to be speaking approximately your mom this way,she delivered you into this international and take care and grant for you and you're sitting there complaining, you will desire to be embarrassed approximately your self. There are people who're starving and loss of life of ailments in this united states of america and someplace else and you're complaining approximately some thing as petty as top.top do not make the guy,by no potential has and by no potential will.every physique would be unable to look alike,there are issues i do unlike approximately my physique yet i'm not crying a river over it.i'm in simple terms residing my life and taking area in common it rather is a sturdy day.Do you think of you are the only one that has by no potential had a woman pal or is a virgin? the international won't end considering the fact which you have achieved neither of those issues.you're basically 14,not 40 5,you have not even all started life yet!so some distance as that intercourse element circulate,that's not likely to toughen your life,you do not would desire to hurry into some thing which you're actually not mature sufficient to handle yet.you're taking this top element too some distance and that i desire you return to realize that there are issues lots extra considerable in life than top,communicate education and you will circulate some distance in life.

Answer 4

First off, let me tell you I'm a mom of 4 sons. At ages 14, none of them were tall.
Your height as an adult depends on your heredity. If your parents are of average height, then you'll likely be of a similar height. Especially if you keep yourself healthy, don't smoke, do drugs, exercise and stay away from junk food! Your growing body NEEDS good input to grow to it's optimal height.

Remember, many boys do not start their growth spurt until they're older. Unless you're starting to grow a beard, you probably have quite a few more inches of tallness coming your way

And you are NOT damaged because you're short right now, please believe me. Your mom didn't abort you because she wanted you. So many kids' moms don't, and those babies got ripped out and tossed into a dumpster. Count yourself blessed that you have a mom who cared enough to keep you safe before you were born!!



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Answer 5

do you know that boys don't stop growing till they are 21.I have 3 sons and they were all still a bit short at 14 but then like over night they grew I'm 5 foot nothing and 3 years ago my boys were shorter than me ,now I cant reach their shoulders..you don't need a girl yet ,I know it would be nice and it will happen ,look around at other boys your age ,some may be taller but a lot are just like you ,and if they say they have a girl they are lying to you to make them selves look good.look at the boys 3 years older than you ,look at there old school photos ,if you can and you will see how different you will look in 3 years too.

Answer 6

You need a psych consult. Your mother loved you and now you are a self made looser. Get out and be a man. Look at Tom Cruise on 5'6 and a total winner. Stop whinig and do something with your life. Maybe you could be the man who discovers a cure for cancer or something wonderful. You can't be any older than 16 because you are pretty self involved.
Stop acting like a fetus and maybe people will respect you.

Answer 7

K, for one....what is your question? Two....not to be rude, but with that attidude, it's not surprising that you don't have a girlfriend. I've dealt with ex-boyfriends who had a low self-esteem and wish they would have been aborted or wanted to go into the military and hope they got shot. It's not attractive, and I didn't feel sorry for them, it just pissed me off.
Your still only 14 years old...your still going to grow. Just don't smoke or anything like that, because that will stunt your growth.
Stop being so down on yourself and realize that being shorter isn't that bad. Everyone is different...if we were all the same, this world would blow more than it does now.

Answer 8

Here is my advice:

Quit whining. There are people out there far worse off than you. You think you are so pitiful because you are short and your life isn't worth living if you don't get laid at some point. There are men and women out there missing their arms and legs and they don't have the kind of self-loathing you do. Start being thankful that you have air in your lungs and a mom who chose to let you live.

Answer 9

I'm very short.4 ft 10in half inches there is nothing wrong with being short.my whole family is short. i would rather be short then like a clumbsy learch. don't hate your mom because she loved you and wanted to keep you.i dont know if you are christian or not but it is said that Jesus was about 5ft tall.if you need to talk sometime email me. don't be so hard on your self people will always find something to make fun of.people can just be plain mean.I'm happy and I'm not even 5ft.

Answer 10

hey don't say that. don't listen to the idiots who put you down. i'm 5'1. It doesnt matter if you are female or male. To be honest with you a lot of girls like shorter men. And you shouldnt be worried about your virginity at fourteen. You know what? How do you know you won't grow!?!? Even if you don't im telling you some girls do like shorter men, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you hun. I'm sure you have a lot of redeeming qualities. Good luck and love yourself for who you are.