THE BABY DIED WHEN IN WAS 7 1/2 MONTHS PREGNANT.MY HUSBAND AND I REALLY WANT ANOTHER BABY, WHAT DO U THINK.
2006-09-29 18:51:55 · 23 answers · asked by KHARI 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'm sorry to hear about your loss, you don't say if you had complications during your pregnancy. It would be best to check with your physician about this. You should also consider if you are mentally ready to try again after such a profound loss.
2006-09-29 18:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by aliciarox 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I'm very sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what you went through.
As far as a timeline goes, there are many factors that affect how soon you can try again. What was the reason for the loss? Genetic factors, physical abnormalities, cervical incompetence, etc. must be taken into account. Was there any damage to your body? Generally, it is recommended to wait a full year when carrying a baby this far to ensure that your uterus has properly healed. As well, depending on how the labor occured, additional time may be necessary. Is genetic testing required? An OB would be more qualified to discuss this thoroughly with you and evaluate your medical history. Again, I'm sorry for your loss.
2006-09-30 03:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister got pregnant with her 2nd child a month after having her first, and so did my niece (like mother like daughter I guess). My concern would be the cause of the death of the baby. Its rare that a fetus that reaches 7 1/2 months doesn't make it, my baby was 6 months and she did fine. I don't know the facts here on this, but I would be concerned with going through that again. I am terribly sorry for your loss and wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide.
2006-09-30 01:59:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sandi A 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your baby. I went through this last month. I lost a baby girl at 21 weeks. My doctor told me to wait at least 3 months, but we are waiting 6 months because I had to start taking Zoloft for Post-partum Depression. Discuss this with your doctor. Have a pre-conception visit. Did your doctor tell you to keep taking your prenatal vitamins? I have continued mine. Also, there is a great website for people that have lost babies due to miscarriage, stillbirth, early infant (Neo-natal) death. www.angels4ever.com They have a memorial wall that you can add baby's name to and there is a link to the Yahoo groups online support group. It is a wonderful group and it has really helped me a lot. Good luck to you.
2006-09-30 02:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry for your loss ,its safe ,try again.I lost a baby at 5 months ,and I got pregnant again within 3 months ,I now have a beautiful 3 year old.Do you know why that baby died? I never did find out ,its horrible.you will be scared next time but when that baby is born you will feel so much better ,no you will never forget the lost one but you will heal.
2006-09-30 02:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by stephanie n 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YES!!! Deffinately try again! It is totally 100% fine to get pregnant SOON after having a baby.(even having a stillborn baby). I have known lots and lots of people who got pregnant just 6-8 weeks after having a baby and did just fine. My grandmother had twins, then 6 weeks later became pregnant with another kid and carried it to full term and all her babies were healthy kids. My grandmother is not the only person who I know who has had this happen..I've known lots more who have had several children and all of them were barely one year apart. One of my good friends has 5 children and they are all only about a year apart..so 5 kids aged 5, 4, 3, 2, and 10 months..pretty impressive, eh! lol
2006-09-30 02:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by Daft One 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm sorry. The devastation you have had to face must have been terrible. I am so sorry.
Yes it is safe. Frequently conception does not occur as long as the woman is lactating. It can vary so if you want to be sure, try a RN consultant or your doctor.
2006-09-30 02:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should probably ask your OB Dr. Physically it is safe to try again, but are you really ready mentally or are you just trying to replace what you lost. Think about that more than anything and when your heart is ready so too will your uterus
2006-09-30 02:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by callmecray_z 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The most recent studies recommend (this is a general recommendation - for mothers who went full term) that it is healthiest for mother and child to space children 2-4 years apart (no more, no less). BUT in your case, you should really consult an OB/Gyn. All my best hopes for you
2006-09-30 01:57:19 · answer #9 · answered by Signilda 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You haven't given any reason why not. As long as you and your husband are emotionally ready to try again and if your OB/Gyn gives you the thumbs up, then of course it's safe.
2006-09-30 01:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by TweetyBird 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋