I am a 23 year old female. Newleywed. I can be hard on myself sometimes but I know that I have a lot going for me. I am educated and told I am pretty, I have a good bod, and a fun personality. It seems though my husbands always not "interested in"being" with me" Any advancements I make get turned down. I just want to cry because I am not sure what is wrong with me. His gestures make me feel like I am disgusting and repulsive...:(
2006-09-29 18:47:56 · 9 answers · asked by mnmcop 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can't answer this one too well, it is not the norm. It might be that he is having some issues that he has not told you about. Maybe he should see a therapist. Could be that he is intimidated by sex, maybe he feels inadequate about his body? Are there things he likes that he is shy to express to you. I would recommend a heart to heart and maybe some couples based therapy. Good luck.
2006-09-29 18:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand. How and why would you feel that you are disgusting and repulsive when you just descried yourself as educated/pretty/good bod/fun personality. And what makes you feel that there is something wrong with you?
This is your husband, have a conversation about how you missing being close and making love to him. If he choose not to engage in the conversation . try another topic of interest and lead back to the two of you, with subtle questions. Try not to use words that blame. Don't not stop sleeping close, or showing affections toward him. If after time and no chances. request that you two get some professional advise . Or it could be he is afraid to have children right now.
2006-09-29 19:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you. It's him.
I would suggest you check or think of a couple things.
Does he drink to the point of getting drunk. If so, then he just can't.
Does he ever disappear for a few hours with no explanation?
If so, he's cheating on you.
2006-09-29 18:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need some good luvin on the side! Holla at ya boy.
2006-09-29 18:54:23 · answer #4 · answered by bigredretard2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but is he gay? I mean, do you suspect he might be? If not, you need to find out what he's so angry about. He's obviously furious about something and punishing you.
2006-09-29 18:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, encourage him to be honest with you. Ask him, point blank, what is the problem?
2006-09-29 18:55:53 · answer #6 · answered by Linda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not your problem but his, and the sooner you see that, the better you will be. someone out there is right for you, maybe not him
good luck
2006-09-29 18:52:49 · answer #7 · answered by snowteller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong with him.You are okay.Talk with him,ask him what is the problem he has.
2006-09-29 19:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not you... it's him
2006-09-29 19:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋