He signed up for the Navy, what can I do to convince him to give us another shot before he ships out in a couple of months? I feel I'll never see him again, and I want to do all I can, but I don't want to sound desperate when I try. Any suggestions? I really would love to spend the rest of my life with him, and I wouldn't mind waiting for him to come back ... if he ever does. At first I thought it was killing me that he wanted to be a cop, but this is so much worse because he'd be half a world away. Is there anythingthat I can do to win him back? He says he's still hurting, and I think he wants to be with me because he is really nice to me, unlike everyone else I've seen going through a break-up, there were never any petty arguments; our breakup was very mature and was all talk, not yelling. I just need a way for him to spend more time with me, so I can show him that I've changed, and we were talking on the phone a while, and I know that he's changed too. Dont say its impossible
2006-09-29 18:28:38 · 9 answers · asked by crazypantsmcgee69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
when hes being nice to you. take him by the hand, sit down with him & tell him like you've told us. tell him hes the best thing thats ever happened to you , tell him you can't bear to be without him, tell him you've changed & you need another chance & that you'd love to have the chance to wait for him while hes in the navy. (guys love to have someone waiting for them, while they are in the military. the smell of my future wifes perfume got me through a lot of stuff!) Tell him you love him. please do all these things & you will win him back, i just know it! e mail me at terrinjohn89@adelphia.net & let me know how it works out for you!
2006-09-29 18:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband just joined up for the army, it's really hard for me right now, he left for boot camp two weeks ago. Let him know that you love him and support his decision on joining the navy, that way he will see that you love him enough to let him do what he really wants. Remind him of all the good times you had together, and how you miss it and would give anything in the world to get it back. It dosent sound desperate when you speak from your heart. Let me know what happens please, butterfly79girl@yahoo.com. My guys in the military too and it's hard being away from him.
2006-09-30 01:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Robin W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe that "LOVE ALWAYS FIND A WAY?" If you are meant to be, no matter what, you'll end in each other's arms. Don't mind if you're at the north part of the world and he is at the south part of the world.. or vice versa... at the right time, at the right place,you will be together.
2006-09-30 01:44:21 · answer #3 · answered by odel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be changed when he is gone, miss female companionship and want to be with you. See how things go while you stay in touch with him while he is gone. We military guys make great, loving, loyal husbands.
2006-09-30 01:32:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mark W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like both of you are in control of the situation. I don't this it would be hard for you to be away from each other!
2006-09-30 01:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face reality. It's over. You hurt him. He's leaving. That's life my dear. You can't force someone to love you, no matter how much you think they should.
2006-09-30 01:32:22 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look unless you cheated i willkeep calling writting and pour your heart out to him oh and bang the stuff out of him
2006-09-30 01:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by luis_11211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are gonna start sleeping with his best friend...it will drive him crazy.
2006-09-30 01:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by bigredretard2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish him the best: move on!
I hope your broken heart heals................
2006-09-30 01:35:07 · answer #9 · answered by ThomasR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋