I am an intelligent, attractive, warm, professional divorced woman with two amazing young children. How hard is it to find a man deserving of coming into our circle and taking on the responsibilities of fatherhood? In my opinion it would be an honor to have a hand in raising these children, but certainly a lot of work. Are there any good single guys out there?
2006-09-29 18:23:51 · 17 answers · asked by Mos 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Children are an important part of life. I certainly would not shy away from a special lady because she has children. However, I will tell you that one of the first things I look at in that situation is the relationship with the father of the children. No one wants to walk into a volatile situation with with an Ex, and since there are children, that person will always be a part of your life. Unfortunately, if the relationship with the Ex is bad, it is often beyond your control.
2006-09-29 19:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Scott David 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email me and I will tell you all about my experiences in marry two woman with children,,, not to say you are not a great gal,
Just that blended family at least for me just didnt work, she didnt disapline them, smoked , drank got arrested, wrecked cars, house etc,,,
I am looking for a intelligent, attractive, warm, professional divorced woman, but unfortunately I will never marry or live with anyone again,, I feel I can have a great relationship without the live in part,,
good luck,,,
2006-09-30 01:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are many many men out there that can't have children of there own, and would love to be a farther to your kids, maybe you should sign up with people meet.com are true beginnings,com just to get a feel of what men think of this, on the other hand if he's out there look at all he would be getting, a very intelligent and attractive, on top of that professional woman and to loving kids. but maybe you should stop looking and GOD will send him to you!!!!!! Good Luck Dear
2006-09-30 01:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do find one interested, that would be great, just have your radar on "high" for pedophiles, who are attracted to the children, but use the mom to get to the kids.
Not all men who would help raise children are like that, many are altruistic, but it is not the natural order of things to raise someone elsel's children. Especially if there is significant financial investment expected in the deal.
Trust your best instincts, and if your friends are creeped out by him or the kids or dog don't like him, beware!
2006-09-30 01:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by finaldx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men in general are afraid of the responsibilites that children carry. That's why they tend to stay away from a woman with children. But like me having grown up with 3 woman in one household and no father figure I've come to understand the importance of motherhood and what they go through in raising children...now to answer your question...are there any good single guys out there? Yeah we're out there...Am I afraid of a woman with children...definetly not.
2006-09-30 01:34:47 · answer #5 · answered by deais74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,, you know,, i have been a step father before,, and it was pretty nice,, but ,,, it is not for everyone... and what about the possibility of having children with the new guy????
So,, there is a lot to consider ,, other than the honor of raising someone elses kids...
good luck
2006-09-30 01:48:36 · answer #6 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister married a man and she that three children. I married my husband last year, and he has four children (who are not amazing), and I have no children as yet. At my wedding everyone wanted to know why a person would want to marry a man with four children? I did, and I am learning a children and ex wife as we go a long.
2006-09-30 01:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by Errolyn27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are guys like me, who are divorced, have kids of their own and are looking for someone like yourself with kids. Only a single parent can understand another single parents responsibilities. I dont want to marry someone who never had kids and has not idea on how to raise them and take care of them, I want someone who already has the experience. She know, that if she is nice to my kids, then I will be nice to her kids and visa versa.
2006-09-30 01:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in your place, that is out of marriage ( I wish I am!), I would never ever MARRY again, just to ensure, I don't go through all that, all over again!
I would take care of my kids, use my intelligence, attraction, warmth, professionalism for a non aligned relationship, if its available.
Otherwise, I am fine, okay without it.
Not again!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 01:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an awesome Q.......I am a single father of three teenage daughters, and I have yet to find a woman who is loyal enough and open enough to be by my side and my girls as well,I am sure it can happen, it is just a matter of fate,and finding that special person whom desires everything that you and yours desire in life.Good Luck and Good Health!
2006-09-30 01:31:58 · answer #10 · answered by Electric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋