i'm not talking about sex..i'm talking about just a friend. like me and my boyfriend have been together for a year, and i don't know if he's just using me to have someone to talk to because he has no other friends really
2006-09-29 18:20:22 · 7 answers · asked by confused_agian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well i am sure he has friends. And most guys dont use girls to talk to someone, why dont you talk to him about it, but not in a rude way. Just be upfront but polite.
2006-09-29 18:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to be friends with your boyfriend. If he needs someone to talk to, then listen. If it makes you uncomfortable, then tell him. Be honest. Find him a male friend.......guys need friends too!
2006-09-30 01:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you feel he listens to you when you need to talk? if not then it is a one sided relationship. he may not be deliberatly using you but you said he has no other friends so he may lack social skills. Maybe you can teach him some and see how things work out.
2006-09-30 01:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by Tristan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on if you are having sex with him. Most men dont really enjoy the conversations of women anyway, unless they are gay. men and women dont have much in common by nature. Men like beer, football, and checkin out girls. If you enjoy those three things then i think you are safe ,if not ,you are gettin used...probably for sex though..not conversation.
2006-09-30 01:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by bigredretard2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really risky..you've been together for a year and still stuck in the same situation?..if you feel that way, better ask him.. coz there's no use to stay in a relationship that doesn't grow.. there are still more better guy'z out there girl!!..if you feel that you are being used, so why stay?..
2006-09-30 01:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by kAyXeE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's your boyfriend, why wouldn't he talk to you?
Should he go talk to some other girls instead??
2006-09-30 01:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your boyfrind is not one of your best friends, you are with the wrong guy anyway...be glad he communicates with you.
2006-09-30 01:56:55 · answer #7 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋