I've heard this does happen but its not reported as much. The guy might be timid, weak, or doesn't believe in fighting. Maybe the wife is strong physically, or was abused herself and takes it out on her man. Maybe she's over weight and throws her weight around. Maybe she likes to dominate a man. Should a man have to put up with an abusive woman? Does he wake up and realize its time to act, and acts like "Dirty Harry" asking her if she feels lucky????
2006-09-29 17:52:40 · 19 answers · asked by ZORRO 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Abuse is abuse no matter if it is a man or woman supplying the hits. Most states are waking up and making stiffer abuse laws. If a man hits or a woman hits they deserve to be arrested for it. In the state I live in no one has to press charges against the agressor...if the police arrive and there has been physical contact the hitter goes to jail automatically.
2006-09-29 17:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mav 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A man should not have to put up with abuse anymore then a woman should! Husbands and wives need to take an hour each day and sit down with each other and talk if there is any way that they can manage to! Talk calmly and politely to each other and be able to say anything that is on their mind(in a nice way) or ask any question and get an honest answer! Then the divorce rate will go down!
2006-09-29 18:02:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter if you are a man or a woman. No one has the right to put their hands on another person in anger.. No one... If you think she will change, you are sadly mistaken unless she wants and gets help. An abuser is an abuser no matter what sex they are.
2006-09-29 17:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Nt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend who happened to be the victim of his charade..he is a nice guy, but for some reason, my friend whom i introduce him to, is an abusive girl. we do visit them and spend sometimes for old time sake. then we have notice that there is something wrong with their relationship.
i think he never hit her back cause he was raise in a good family and his mom told him not to hit any female no matter what. i guess his mom is wrong on that part cause the wife is a husband beater. she never stop hitting him. i've seen it with my two eyes and shocked to the bones.
she is not physically strong, she is so tiny, she maybe physically abused by her dad cause she is kind of out there. my bad for hooking him up.i still believe that she caused all the havoc in their married life. .she is not a very responsible wife, she have some agenda that im not sure what for. she is sweet to us but she treat her husband differently.she pretend to other that she is the victim but we know the truth. that is why she don't want to associate with other who knew her real story...
he is not weak, but i think mom's teaching stick to him and that is why, when mom said, its' time to leave, he did. they are divorce now and she is banned to get to close to his family. cause she show her true color with the brother and his brother's girlfriend on a separate occasion while they are still married. so his family against her now and don't care for her even she is the mother of their grandchild.
i think due to her father's beating, her mind went out...sad but its true. i think she regret what she have done but its too late cause those hurt is too deep to ignore...
2006-09-29 18:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by salome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to regroup and take a hike ! Sounds like someone will always be the punching bag ! How many times can you poke a dog til he bites ? There TROUBLE BREWING !
Get out before the pot boils over ~ NO JOKE ! Someone has issues that will not fade away !
2006-09-29 17:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then the woman is guilty of spousal abuse.
The law is starting to recognize this more and more, and many women find out the hard way, that they can go to prison for it, just as easily as a man can.
2006-09-29 17:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some men like dominating women, and vise versa, but if abuse is involved...its definitely not good. If you ever come across people like that, do not hesitate and do not feel that you are poking you nose into other people's business, call the police.
2006-09-29 17:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Angel's Smile 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no matter who does the hitting it is assault under the law. Report the person and the experience of being in a cell with someone meaner than them should prove enlightening.
2006-09-29 18:00:00 · answer #8 · answered by matthew p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You man up and deal with it, a woman will never be stronger then the male. You do nothing but put her in a hold and hold her till she calms...and not a head lock either.
2006-09-29 17:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by playwitdamind 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a man should not have to put up with abuse. It's not right, but if she has mental problems and the man REALLYYYYYYY wants to be with her, he should get her some help for her mental problems.
2006-09-29 17:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋