How do I make them understand that I have a preference!
2006-09-29 17:50:59 · 12 answers · asked by shygirl1993brat 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
wrench n' away, no you're dumb, learn how to spell dummy!
2006-09-29 17:56:08 · update #1
well you just need to tell them.. they most likely won't like it..but all you can do is try!
2006-09-29 17:53:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥cutemamma♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nicely i imagine you should enable your guy buddy understand your moms and dads have racist perspectives if it really is extremely the case. it really is amazingly unhappy in 07! you should no longer date him although because it is going to reason too a lot drama between your kinfolk and also you. If there change right into a fashion you should describe on your moms and dads that you quite like him and his colour ought to no longer be an concern yet you sense it really is get them to admit that they dont approve of interracial courting. I advise technically your pals at the prompt are not racist (i'd desire no longer) they merely dont desire you as a lot as now outdoors your race. in case you're youthful like less than 16 i'd say wait until eventually you're older and stay pals along with your guy buddy. do not sneak out by using the indisputable fact which will in worry-free words make it more beneficial sturdy on your moms and dads to trust you and they quite wont like your guy buddy. Btw, he's bi-racial no longer black.
2016-10-16 02:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by doreen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your preference is based on a deep hurt you have yet to admit to yourself or anyone else. Something is wrong with you, inside, so you seek out these black men like an old white guy picks up hookers. You're looking for someone "low," because you think you're a bad person. You have hurt, you have anger, you have guilt and depression.
The truth is, and your parents hope this for you even if they haven't instilled it in you, that you are a good person, and you deserve the richest, smartest, hardest working, most powerful man you can find, and most likely that isn't a black dude you meet in some club, on the streets or hanging out in the mall.
Of course there could be a black man who's complimentary to you and your passions and goals in life, and maybe your parents are just racist, if they can't even stand that guy, but otherwise, you're probably aiming in the wrong direction.
2006-09-29 17:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Hopefully you don't have a preference for them because your parents are against them.
Black culture teaches men to try to act more suave, debonair, and flashy than the typical white culture. Be sure to look past the surface of any man before you get yourself pregnant and see what the real person underneath is like.
2006-09-29 17:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well first its not the issue of pleasing them.
Its the issue that they are racist.
First of all, Every human has feelings, and it don't matter the skin of a person to determine their actions.
There are billionares who are black, there is many people who like to judge other people by statistics, your parents are one of them.
Be yourself, they can't make you like something you don't like, eventually when you move out they will get used to it, or get over it...
Btw... black boys are good in bed! LOL if ya know what i mean.......
2006-09-29 17:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I could be that they both were dumped while dating black people.
You should go up to them and remind them of the time they were in love with black people. Just be careful that they don't harp on the joyful memories to much or they may divorce.
2006-09-29 18:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound more racist than them. How many races and sub-races have you been with to prefer a race? Isn't that prejudicial, then? Stick to italians. Alot of us have multiple racial backgrounds, if you go way back. You can get all-in-one with us.
2006-09-29 18:04:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they do not want black grandchildren.
Perhaps they find black people inferior to their white skin.
Perhaps they find black people ugly.
Perhaps they find black people gross.
It won't be easy to change those mind. But do not change your decision. Do what you feel right to do. Dont give reason to dirty minds.
2006-09-29 18:07:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure you really do and not because your parents hate it!
2006-09-29 17:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to explain to them that first they should respect what you think. second, you cant judge someone by the color of their skin what really counts is the personality.
2006-09-29 18:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by finiky01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever thought that's WHY you like them...because you know they hate it?
2006-09-29 17:55:46 · answer #11 · answered by Sweet Gran 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋