plz help i m in so much pain My family WAS where my mom lives with my step father he hates me n even dont
want mom 2 talk with me with LUV coz he thinks that my mom missing his x husband.my step papa beats me n i hv still marks on My whole body.My momjust want me 2 serve my father.My step simbling hate 2 introduce me as a sis.once my step sis throw Bleachan On My face.that day i decided that i should leave this home dont want2 hurt myself again.there was a guy who was intrested in me.i dont like him But he was (i think Then) sincere with me he send his parents 2 my home but my father refused n insulted them n said he ll never gonna marry me.he used 2 call me again after it.i dont wana talk 2 him but i found a way 2 get of this home.i left my home. got married 2 him But after marriage i came 2 know i m again in a hell,my husband has relations with hisgirl friends,he is a Drinker,watch all day Nude movies he beats me when drunk.i was so lonely then met a guy on net.i luv him.no way out
2006-09-29 17:32:50 · 11 answers · asked by Aizah a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i m 18 n i dont hv any gud qualifiatin...my step pa did't allow me 2 study
2006-09-29 17:38:38 · update #1
hi brave girl....i m so sorry 2 hear this....since when i read ur question feeling so depressed.....i think u r so innocent so cant identify people....n it happend 2 u so early....i can feel ur frustration from ur question.....u left ur parents they deserve it But now get rid of ur fool husband as soon as possible.....go 2 court n ask 4 devroce...as u dont hv any gud qualifiation but u can do some small job.....continue ur studies its ur days 2 study.....tell ur chat friend all truth if he is truly involved he ll luv u more after knowing what happend 2 u.....Also try 2 contact ur mom.....may b she can arrange some place 4 u 2 live.....this is my id Pari_sherwani@yahoo.com......contact me i ll try 2 do some thing 4 u.....u r so brave girl!!!! take care
2006-09-29 18:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have already gone through a lot of pain and anguish. Its very unfortunate that you were betrayed both by your family and the one whom u thought would have saved u. At your age its reallly difficult to handle all these things. Although u r going through a difficult time but don't loose heart, remember sun rises after every dark night. U have to fight for ur rights and survival, its always better to fight and loose than to quit. Think about those children whor homeless aand parentless, still they r fighting to survive. Life is not as easy but its not difficult either, one needs to put in the effort. Its ok that u u met the guy on net and u r in love, its quite natural as u were searching for someone. Don't trust this guy rightaway, otherwise u may face similar situation. I know u r feed up of these things so just leave them and try to contact any women right organisation, they can really help. No one else but only u can help urself out.
2006-09-30 02:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont b a emotional fool again. U should leave all ur fears nd tell everything clearly to ur so called net friend. If he really loves u he will b with u but and again a big but if he is just playing with ur emotions he will leave u and u should not feel bad or broken as this refusal will b better than later abuses. Try to b independent nd go in any good working women hostel.
2006-09-30 01:36:24 · answer #3 · answered by misty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you feel you need to share this story with your b/f online? Talk to a therapist if you need closure. Go to a women's shelter if you want out. They have counseling for every issue there. Try the Salvation Army. Only you can stop yourself from being a victim.
Sorry for your troubled life. Take control by leaving this abusive marriage. See a counselor and move on with your life. You can heal. Don't keep looking for an outside savior. Your strength to change your life lies within you.
2006-09-30 00:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately this happens too often. To get out of one hell hole you go to another. Kinda like jumping from the frying pan into the fire.The only advice that you need at this time is to get away from your abusive husband. Go to a home for battered women for help.Let the new guy stay on ice for a while and get to know yourself first. You have to become dependent on yourself first or no relationship will work for you. Bottom line is you must learn to support yourself before anyone will respect you.
2006-09-30 00:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey.............don't b so sad. ur story is really a very sad 1 but don't u worry coz u hav lotz of frndz out here. b frank n honest 2 da guy u luv and i think dat u'll go forward wid him if he luvs u da same. if he luvs u da same n truly cares 4 u den u hav got ur soulmate. if he truly luvs u den u both belong 2 each other n i think that ur struggle in life will b over 4ever. so dont b sad, hav d guts 2 tell him everything, i m sure dat he'll definitely undrstnd u..................... i can tell so coz a similar thing happnd wid me........
ALL THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-30 03:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by sanjana_studious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen azi, you are again going into same boat. the guy whom you met on net ,he just making you fool, have you tell him your story. the guy is fooling you and you are emotionally weak. dear gets up be independent,dont inlove in any kind of love and sympathy,you alone can go higher its only a matter of your hard labour. face things bravely ok,first make your heart strong as nothing can distrubed you. jhukne wale ko duniya jhukati h ok dear.
2006-09-30 00:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by kabir 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i am feeling realy sorry for u i think u shud tellur story 2 the person whom u like nd i am sure he'll understand nd i'llpray to god for u take care
2006-09-30 02:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by smartygirlmisbah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow hunny you need to get out as soon as you can because sooner or later not only will he beat you but he will also kill you. if you love the man on the internet then try to be with him but dont get yourself back into the same relationship you are in...if he loves you also he wont care about your past he will only care about you!!! good luck and i will pray for you!!!
2006-09-30 00:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by little_angel63384 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
okay u have some bad grammer here or it is just me yes you should get out of there no matter what !! and that guy on the net can be the one for you just listen to your heart and plz be careful!!!!! ppl on the net can be the one i found mine on the net too so just follow your heart get out and meet the guy on the net just plz be careful!!! good luck and take care of yourself i bet this doesn't even make sense okay to make it short
- get out its too dangerous for you no question ask
-meet the guy on the net
-BE CAREFUL!!!!! when you meet him
-good luck
-take care of yourself!!!
2006-09-30 00:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋