We know each other since kindergarden, I practically know her life, her family, her problems, etc. As we grew up, we ended up being best friends. when both us were in 10th grade, she started to hang out with others, I didn't care that much because in that time were still hanging out. But everything changes, when got in 11th grade, she started to change, her attitude towards me is different and I don't know why, I don't know if it is because of her economical status began to get better or she realized that I am just someone to use. Because I am known to be slow, not retarded, it just that I don't catch up the things very fast and I'm not good in some classes because she is smart and I'm not. She onlys talks to me when she need a ride home or needed other stuffs. And I realize that I know everything about her but she rarely knows me. Can someone help me? Do I tell her that she become a stranger, a classmate or I leave it like this, like nothing happen.
2006-09-29 17:30:54 · 9 answers · asked by AnyL12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I really appreciate all of your answes, not everyone here in my life have done it. Thanks guys even if I don´t know you, Thanx. All of your answes I agree, you keep telling me to have other friends and I have other friends that I talk to or hang out but she is the only one that I have problem with.
2006-09-30 13:50:38 · update #1
I would say something. Friend I feel like I am being used. If she asks, explain. This is no position u should have to be in. If she does not get it, let it go, let her go!!!
2006-09-29 17:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by kay w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she shouldn't be considered a friend. I have to admit I did that to one of my best friends in high school. I was in the "popular" crowd and she was in the "nerd" crowd. I would only hang out with her if the others weren't around. Now that we are older I am the one regretting that I lost our friendship not her. Soon enough the only time you'll think of her is when your going through your yearbook! If the relationship is important to you though lay it all out there while you are giving her one of her free rides somewhere. 9 out of 10 you are a better person inside and maybe out then she will ever be. She might be jealous of you and that's why she doesn't hang out with you is because YOU make HER look bad!!
2006-09-30 00:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, good things come to an end. It might be time that you yourself hung out with new people. Not to say you don't need to be friends anymore, she is just making it clear that she wants to be social, and sometimes, after a while, people stop having best friends at a certain age. Maybe thats how she feels. Be her friend, but make other friends. You may not even be best friends with her, you may be best friends with your memories together. If that makes sense. Needless to say, whether you remain best friends with her or not, its absolutely up to you!
2006-09-30 00:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kathie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you should leave it how it is. she probably doesnt really wanna be your friend anymore but if you tell her that shes become a stranger to you it would probably cause some unecessary drama and tension between you guys. my advice to you: find some different friends and start to hang out with them. this girl is probably really important to you but you cant change the way she feels. leave this girl as an "honorary aquaintance."
2006-09-30 00:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by bubbleluvr24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just move on. if you feel like she is just using you then she probably is. She obviously is not a friend, friends are there whether they need something or not.
2006-09-30 00:35:55 · answer #5 · answered by Pinky S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you could still be friends with her but not best friends, i now its hard but you will have to find a best friend. and make sure that she and no one else ever uses you for anything. it just a good quality in a friend, and specilay not in a best friend
2006-09-30 00:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by sarah m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of times we cannot expect everything can remain the same as we hopes for...a person might be changed...so you do not have to be sad
2006-09-30 00:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by jessy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is a taker and she is doing what she does best. it would probably be best to just sever all ties and find another best friend
2006-09-30 00:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend and tell her how you feel, she probably doesnt know.
2006-09-30 00:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by Kendall S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋