Do you think it's just cause to eliminate someone from your circle for no reason, just stop talking to you, ignore you, and act like they never knew you? Oh, and you never did anything that you know about to provoke this situatiion............????
2006-09-29 17:28:21 · 13 answers · asked by silhouette 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, that's not just.
But bad things do happen to good people. Just don't let it get you bitter. Remember how it feels, and don't ever do that to anyone else.
Try to heal, becoming a better person. You'll find better friends. Keep the faith, stiff upper lip, and chin up.
2006-09-29 17:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hi ,, that does seem rather strange behavior,, there is no telling what the actual reason could be,, so i would just let it go..
I have a friend that had another close friend,,,
the close friend went sort of nutty and told my friend that she forgave her for saying a bunch of stuff,, that my friend swears that she never ever said..
So, people get strange ideas and thoughts sometime and make bad decisions wanting to always blame someone..
Good luck,,, carry on...you will be ok....
2006-09-30 00:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, first off your wording is slightly off. "just cause" means to have a justifiable reason for an action... The word you are looking for is justifiable. And the answer to your question is a simple no. We should never extend the hand of friendship to then just pull it back without providing an explanation as to why. To do so allows for speculations and assumptions to run rampant. And unless I missed something growing up... Speculation and assumption are not words one would associate with friendship.
2006-09-30 00:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the rumor mill has taken an active roll....or something else - have you heard of someone removing themselves from a person/situation because of temptation? Or jealous BF or GF? I think it would be interesting to find out which it is! Just be sure and let me know.
2006-09-30 00:34:55 · answer #4 · answered by bardstale 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It happens sometimes. I also faced this type of sits sometimes, What, I just like to do is :-
Time never remains the same. It keep changing continously. & like the same, Situations never remains the same.
be cool, stop thinking over, wait 4 the the time, The situations be at right.
Hope to hear frm u soon,+vely.
2006-09-30 00:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by SSM 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If they can acts like that and you feel there is nothing much you can do..so just ilet it be...
you can change yourself for them but do you ever think this is your trueself?
so i advice you just let go naturally
2006-09-30 00:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People may think you did or say something which you might not have done.
There is not enough communication these days.
2006-09-30 00:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason, they just haven't shared it with you. But, yes, I believe that everyone has the right to do this.
2006-09-30 00:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
forget about it and find a new group b/c they are not worth your time...btw you are going to be pissed for a while but don't let it make you an angry person.
2006-09-30 00:30:27 · answer #9 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People are fickle... maybe someone told them you did something and they believed them...
2006-09-30 00:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by The::Mega 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋