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She found a pair of panties in my lincoln. What should I do to cover this up?
2006-09-29 17:17:40 · 20 answers · asked by Bottle_Spout 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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This is so easy to deal with.....
FLIP the SWITCH. Put a digital tape recorder in her car, or a digital pen recorder in her purse. Let the GAMES BEGIN. She got the edge on you because she was the first one to catch you.
PHANWA IN THE MACHINE
2006-09-30 02:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by BlackPantherNightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cover it up. lies will only come to bite you in the butt later. if your wife is willing to go to counseling, then you still have a chance to work this out. And get rid of the secretary, stop cheating, and concentrate on making your marriage work. Honesty is always the best policy. If you need other women, or can't stop cheating, then care enough about your wife ,to let her go and find someone who will respect her, love her, and be faithful to her.
2006-09-30 02:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Linda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to see a sumo wrestler with a big stick.....so he can beat the snot out of you. Then you need to give your wife an explanation and a very big apology. Then you should consider getting a new secretary, one that you wont have the urge to want to bonk all the time. And while that is all happening you should grow up and realise that you are married and have made a commitment to your wife.
2006-09-30 00:26:01 · answer #3 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you messed up.. you need to carefully consider the secretaries situation as well.. in most corporate settings, the both of you could get fired..
Also, you need to do the right thing.. get counseling, if your wife will still have you.
2006-09-30 04:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by RTCb2b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cover it up? Apparently your wife is smarter than you think! If you want to save your marriage go to counseling. If you want your secretary then give your wife a break and leave so she can find someone who is worthy of her.
2006-09-30 00:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by goodbye 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually it sounds to me like you have already dealt with your secretary on a personal basis. Sounds like you are the one that needs some help there buddy. Once a cheat always a cheat, she doesnt realize it now, but she needs a lawyer!
2006-09-30 01:08:04 · answer #6 · answered by pearlshell2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Decide if you want your wife or your secretary..... there is no point hurting both of them and that is what you will end up doing if you keep trying to have your cake and eat it too.
2006-09-30 00:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too late now!! Ya shoulda thought of that sooner or never gotten yourself in this situation. You should be lucky that the wife didnt want you to see a Divorce attorney.
2006-09-30 00:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no covering it up YOU ARE BUSTED go to the counselor ask for forgiveness all depends on what you want to happen. if you want to stay married do what she ask and STOP CHEATTEN ON HER if not get out of the marriage
2006-09-30 00:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to counseling ... that is if you want to save your marriage and stop cheating ... but if not get a divorce and continue on with your secretary.
2006-09-30 00:19:38 · answer #10 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋