ok .. uhh .. last saturday .. my boyfriend fingered me .. i know everyone is like it isnt a big deal .. but it was for me .. i had never done it myself or had anyone else do it .. so .. yea ... i was wondering if it is possible for him to take my virginity like that even though we did not have sex .. ? also .. was it possible that he broke the helmn because , when i checked " down there " i didnt feel it o.o .. please help
2006-09-29 17:14:02 · 19 answers · asked by shezt00fressh 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
your still a virgin until you have actual sexual intercourse. if your hymen was broken- you would more than likely have known it then...usually there is discomfort and a small amount of blood, you dident feel it because it is pretty far "up there".
2006-09-29 18:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by acrossfiveyears 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No baby, you're not going to lose your virginity by being fingered. But now that you are having those types of feelings it's a good time to ask yourself if you want to be put in that type of position in the future. I'm sure that your a nice young lady. I'm not passing judgment, but don't let yourself be pushed into a situation that your not comfortable with. Go with god!
2006-09-30 00:19:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No fingering wont take your virginity away, but you can get a vaginal infection; don't let him finger you girl because you don't know how dirty are his hands, seriously you don't want to get a vaginal infection, ask around and you'll see that the average girls get vaginal infection by fingering; I'm not sure if he broke the helmn but if you bleed-ed then he did if you didn't then he didn't.
2006-09-30 04:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by BABY LOONEY 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fingering has nothing to do with sex or viriginity, other than to get you into the mood to say OK or YES.
It's primarily done to give you pleasure and break down your walls of resistance.
2006-09-30 00:18:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are still a virgin. If he broke your hymen, you probably would have noticed. Maybe you didn't know what to feel for or you broke it as a child in a non-sexual way.
2006-09-30 00:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear, you only loooose your virginity when you have sex. Also, I don't think he broke the helmn, but it is possible.
2006-09-30 00:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Vennessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have broken your hymen,but your are still a virgin.The only way to lose virginity is penetration
2006-09-30 07:46:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible, don't listen to these uninformed idiots. this happend to me actually. But losing your virginity is not official until you have sexual intercourse. So don't sweat it.
2006-09-30 02:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by stefanie_wasser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are too young for all this. no, your seal cant be broken just by fingering. it breaks only when there is insertion of pe*is. take my words, 100% sure.
live and enjoy.
2006-09-30 01:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you don't know what certain things are then you are deffently way to young to be "fooling" around even if you do it to yourself. read books, ask a doctor but from what it sounds, you sound very young and i'd suggest..............wait!
2006-09-30 00:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by LilahFairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋