Somebody asked earlier "Why are men such douche-bags?"
I thought it should have been rephrased like this question!
2006-09-29 17:12:54 · 22 answers · asked by A Box of Signs 4 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Good question. I, myself, try to avoid the douche baggy ones. I'm one of those no-nonsense girls that doesn't put up with crap. If a guy isn't going to respect me or myself, then I'll find someone else. Meanwhile, there's a lot of other women out there that probably secretly hate themselves, so they tie themselves to idiotic, abusive, and generally crappy guys as a way to punish themselves. Or maybe they get loser boyfrineds to make themselves feel better about themselves. Or, al lot of the time they'll "fall" for some guy just because he's hot. What's the problem with most overly attractive guys? They know it, and know that they cantreat a girl like crap because she'll always come back to the hot guy. Heck, I don't know. I don't understand other women, which is why all of my frineds are guys.
2006-09-29 17:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jamie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because smooth talking manipulative con-artists are usually
"douche-bags" and failures in adult life but most women, especially young women, do not have the experience or wisdom to understand this so they are easily taken in.....And find themselves single parents working their butts off and trying to find a better mate the second time around....Unfortunately, many of them do not understand why they made a bad choice the first time so they repeat their mistake....Eventually, they are old and unhappy with their lot in life..
2006-09-30 05:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It goes either way, some chicks dig the douches, and some dudes dig the douches. Or at least thats how they'll see it, since they use everythin they can find to be wrong about someone to make themselves feel better and convince themselves that they are more worthy.
2006-09-30 00:17:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You only know about the "douche-bag guys" because unstable girls get involved with them..
but you better realize you only know about negative ones because they are in trouble, and have rocky relationships..
the ones that have great guys, and there are plenty, you dont know them..
because they are not in distress, they are living wonderful lives, and have sucessful relationships, so you never see them,, they are out living etc,,
you only see the bad ones, because they are on the rocks, or near..
thats my opinion..
2006-09-30 04:02:41 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well..I've never met a challenge that wasnt a man.
I dont know why...but we all seem to think the best man is one that needs us to show them the way to becoming something worth having around.
Too bad.....most men like that are pretty well satisfied with their own opinion of themselves.
2006-09-30 00:15:44 · answer #5 · answered by sent_from_heaven2me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they led sheltered lives, then picked the first guy who asked them and thought their behaviour was normal. It happens a lot more than you think.
Maybe they are misled by the outer packaging, much like some nice men I know who get with these hose-bag women who use them for their money.
2006-09-30 00:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice lol. Sometimes women are douchebags... to a point. Then again guys can be total jerks too:) But if they say men are douchebags, that is the perfect retort!
2006-09-30 00:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by emilyy:) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Why do partners, after, or during a relationship, behave like douche-bags?
People are not douche-bags. Their behaviour is reminiscent of the function of a douche-bag.
Out of curiosity, what is so bad about douche-bags? I've used them, flushed the gunk right out of my digestive tract. Douche bags rule!
2006-09-30 00:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
It comes in handy when I'm not feeling "so fresh" to have an extra douche-bag around.
2006-09-30 00:15:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
and what about the women that men choose ?
Well the fact is that man-woman relationship is so intense that blinds the discerning eye on both sides.
2006-09-30 00:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by small 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋