It's doing my head in. My ex bf has swapped numbers with I guy I'm after. This guy is bi, and I've already given him oral 4 weeks ago when he said he wasn't sure whether he was gay or bi... I told him that I used to date another guy in town, and now they've gone off together tonight. I'm not vain or anything but everyone tells me I'm better looking than my ex, and this guy said he wanted to go with me again but I said 'in time' cos I didn't want anyone to find out about him, cos no one knows. Thing is, I fancy him like crazy! When I saw them tonight I got really jealous cos I want this guy! If I went in there I could easily make him go with me and not my ex as I'm more experienced, but I might fall out with my ex, which I don't want to do as he's the only ex of mine who I still talk to! HELP!!
2006-09-29 17:07:11 · 14 answers · asked by ©Wayne© 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am sorry this happens to you mate but a healthy dose of competition would not strain your relationship with him, would it?
2006-09-29 17:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write you ex a letter, tell him how you feel about his dating someone you like. See what happens.
Let their fling run its' course. This guy you like sounds confused anyway, and indecision and a lack of self-awareness is such a turn-off for me.
Your ex is your ex for a reason, and you are not with this bi guy you like for a reason.
Lust passes. So will your 'jealousy'. Go to the movies. Go shopping. Put yourself in an environment where you can meet new people.
2006-09-30 00:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wayne, I know this will be tough, but you have to pull back from any relationship with this bi fellow. Don't endanger your friendship with your ex over this guy, who may very well be a passing ship in the night for both of you fellows. Let it go. The man is not worth that kind of trouble.
2006-09-30 02:01:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say that you are chasing the wrong person. He is bi so he is destined to betray his male lover over a woman. As such you are better off turning in the other direction and walking away. Besides, take it from him he is not very good in bed, I've watched.
2006-09-30 05:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by God 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SOUND A LITTLE Possessive, you probably have the ex because of jealousy, Just let what is going to happen, happen. if it is meant to be that you will go out with this new guy it will happen, he might just be going out with him to ask about you to see if he really wants to go out with you or not. then again he might be trying to see who is the better lover and if you are then don';t worry about it. He will come to you. Now go out and dont bother them on there date you wouldn't want your ex bothering you on your date. have a great day
2006-09-30 11:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by jumpinjackdw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish your ex good luck with this guy, and if things don't work make a move. If you value your ex's friendship you will let it develop.
2006-09-30 08:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by silent_paws 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a good Sports,let them enjoy it first,then came the best for last,maybe it's you.
2006-09-30 01:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by javo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did your ex know you liked this man........sounds like this Man you like is playing you for a fool! Get shot of them both!
2006-09-30 00:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How many men are ther in this world?? Stop and smell the coffee hun, and wait for your turn...
2006-09-30 05:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on boy move on to better things.
2006-09-30 00:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋