So my ex boyfriend is no good and i know this, but why is it i can never get over him. This has been going on for years (like 4). i always break up with him for being a piece of *hit, we stay broke up for a few months until i cant take it anymore & i take him back. Not because i really think he wont be a piece of *hit again, but because i love him and miss him. Everything i think of makes me have thoughts of him. Any sugestions?
2006-09-29 17:05:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Start respecting yourself more. Stop going back to him. You say so yourself, that he's a piece of shiit. Go on some other dates, and don't be afraid to be single. It's a lot of fun.
2006-09-29 17:08:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's strange why we women go for bad guys! I have a feeling it has something to do with our fathers or the religion we were brought up with.
You must learn to love yourself and do things for you. Think about yourself and how you can make yourself happy. You are the most important person at this moment and if you don't appreciate that fact then you will find yourself in these sort of relationships all the time. Spend time getting to know yourself, appreciate who you are and all your good qualities.
When you can love yourself and appreciate who you are then you will find wonderful men at your feet.
Just remember you are a woman and you have the strength.
2006-09-29 18:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by slipper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you break up w/him go out and find yourself someone new. Maybe a different date everynight. Nothing wrong with this. Best to just find somebody to take your mind off him. Even girlfriends should help. Main thing is to stay busy and forget him. You already know he's not worth it.
2006-09-29 17:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are talking about but my piece of *hit is my boyfriend...we have been together for 3 years now, but we have broken up at least 5 times in 3 years, everyone tells me he is wrong for me, and i "deserve" better....but it goes in one ear and out the other!!! We stay with these guys because they have their "sweet" moments that only "we" see...right? It is hard to let go believe me "I know" but there is a part of you that doesent want them to be with someone else!!!! I know i truly love my *hithead boyfriend...And i can tell you love yours too...If not we wouldn't be putting up with it!!! Hopefully one day They will get better....Until then we will put up with there crap....Until...well...something better comes along hahahaha
P.S. dont it suck that we cant help who we love!!!!!
Good Luck!!! at least you know your not the only one that has one of these!!
2006-09-29 17:15:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you wash your hair, sing "I am going to wash that man right out of my hair" You are focusing too much on one person. Tell yourself that you love you and only you. Take yourself out. In other words date yourself. I know that sounds crazy, but you have to concentrate on yourself. He will aways be a PIG. Tell yourself (look in the mirror) that you deserve better at least 7 times a day. You will soon be over him.
2006-09-29 17:11:30 · answer #5 · answered by glenda576 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a list of all the things that he made you feel like crap for. This can be a good reminder for you. Any guy who loves you would never treat you like crap.
2006-09-29 17:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by longtime_northern_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life keep busy
and stand by your decission
Good Luck
2006-09-29 17:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u really like him, but tell him he better clean up his act. try having another guy for a while, see if that takes your mind off him!
2006-09-29 17:08:48 · answer #8 · answered by yo yo grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're fated to suffer gal since can't help asking for it.
2006-09-29 17:09:47 · answer #9 · answered by Cat Commander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap yourself in the face EVERY time you think about him!
2006-09-29 18:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋