with the escort agency owner, while she was 19, and had sex with him after meeting him 15 mins...I also read some of the crazy stuff by having sex with 20 something adults, while she was 17. After meeting her at 24, and having great sex for the first year. She is barely ever horny, like once a month type of thing...is it possible for a woman to be so sexually active so young, and not like it much at the age of 31...dont women peak at that age
2006-09-29 16:54:20 · 14 answers · asked by sailor28_1998 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she may of have been attracted to the thrill of it when she was younger ... now she's in a stable relationship it's hard to move your feelings over from the lust to love ... i don't believe women & men have peaks, i think its an old wives tale ..
2006-09-29 16:57:17 · answer #1 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about her sexual peak. It was probably a time when she didn't value her body/sexuality, or maybe she just liked the thrill or feel of it.
I think her losing interest now is the so-called "newlywed" stage or "new love" stage, where you can't keep your hands off eachother. You just kind of move into a more intimate stage instead of the physical craziness feeling. If not, there could be some other problem where she may need to see a doctor (ob/gyn, physician, psychologist, etc.). Hopefully all goes well.
2006-09-30 00:05:51 · answer #2 · answered by ~Lacey~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that you are not alone! My point is that most guys don't marry virgins, escort or not.
Welcome to marriage after a few years. I wish I had the solution for you. Sex tapers off after a while and for the 1% of married couples that it doesn't - they should keep their mouths shut! I think the sex drive for men is permanently set on the highest setting because of genetics. For women, I can't for the life of me figure out why their sex drive operates with an on/off switch.
2006-09-30 00:12:53 · answer #3 · answered by bardstale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do peak in their late 20's early 30's so maybe your wife is having medical issues depression can cause a low sex drive but many of the medications prescribed for it do to so maybe she is on a medication already that is causing a low sex drive
2006-09-30 00:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for the sex drive to drop off some when women get older but not to the point that it's non existent, unless there's a problem. If there is something worrying u, speak to her about it as it's quite apparent that there's trust issues in your marriage.
2006-09-30 00:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women do peak in their 30's, others don't. Would she have emotional problems, something big enough to stress her out, or cause her to be depressed? Stress, depression and exaustion would cause her sex drive to be lower. Maybe you have just fallen into a rut, which is normal in couples who have been together awhile. Maybe you should try talking to her to see if any of these things apply.
2006-09-30 00:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by babydoll121070 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be just tired of it. She could be totally ashamed of that part of her life and it makes her sick to think about it.
With those men she may have been with, it was just sex. You are her husband, show her that you love her, when you finally get some, make it so wonderful for her that she will be in the mood more often. Light candles, caress her skin and tease her with little soft kisses, say "I love you" when you touch her. She may have given up hope that such a feeling can exist. Stop having sex with your wife, and start making love to her.
2006-09-29 23:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women peak at 40. May be you need to teach yourself some new techniques, or spice up the love life yourself. You know what she likes, so do it, and suprise her with other things.
May be your just not pleaseing her any more. Ask her.
2006-09-30 00:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude what you have on your hands is every guys nightmare. Yo cant make a ho into a houswife. She probably not into you anymore because she pleasuring all your friends and neighbors. Jus kepin it real, i dont mean to offend. But i know plenty of girls like that.
2006-09-30 01:49:29 · answer #9 · answered by bigredretard2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it may have been the thrill....it may be that she has some kind of ill feelings about the past. either way, she was affected by her actions. talk to her. and stop reading her diaries
2006-09-30 00:04:49 · answer #10 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋