There is this guy who follows me around a lot all my friends say he likes me I dont rly like him he always meets me after every class and it get annoying. He asks me lots of personal questions I try avoiding him but he always comes back like a puppy, a annoying one.What should I do?
2006-09-29 16:24:19 · 14 answers · asked by Tari 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just look at him and say...Do i need to get a restraining order??? Sat nothing else, look mad and walk away...
2006-09-29 16:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you need to be told that what he is doing is harrassing you, and you are letting him do it.
Did you ever tell him to lay off, were you ever honest with him and let him know that he is wasting his time, do it before he gets obsessed with you and starts blaming you because you were not honest. Tell him you have other friends you like to hang with, not just him, that you don't want him to get the wrong idea, and when you do this make sure you are not alone with him, he sounds too possesive and obsessed for you to feel safe with him. If his behaviour continues once you have made it clear report him to the school office, you are only protecting yourself, there are many weirdo's out there, if he is a gentleman he will back off. If he is obsessed he will say something like, you know you like me. Don't wait until it is too late, be smart, be safe LOL
2006-09-29 23:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by Neptune2bsure 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would be best to just let the poor guy know how you really feel, and not let him continue to think he has some kind of chance. It will probably hurt the guy, but better now then later. Also, be careful.. this guy almost sounds like a borderline stalker.
2006-09-29 23:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by Bigdoofus 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that your flattered he likes you but that your intrested in someone else, just be nice about it. If he doesn't get the hint, then I suggest a ferocious back-hand to the face, followed by the immediate jumping on his neck.
2006-09-29 23:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm always surprised by how well it works to just being upfront with guys like that. Just tell him nicely that you're not interested and I bet he'll move on.
2006-09-29 23:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by cedar 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to tell him kindly that you don't like him like that. you just tell him that all this personal question are bothering you and that you can be friends if he stops acting this way. try being hs friend.
2006-09-30 12:19:42 · answer #6 · answered by TOM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha sounds like my friends life. she wuz his gf for about 2 wks, then dumped him. now tht skool has started again, hes asked her out 2 times and called her too he drives her crazy. shes just tryin to be patient w/ him.
2006-09-29 23:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He obviously doesn't get the fact that you're not interested in him. It's time to tell him you are not interested in him. Unless you like puppydogs following you around...........
2006-09-29 23:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by java_g_man 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to leave you alone but in a nice way O.K. or just say to not way for you tell him hes gonna be late do something!!
2006-09-29 23:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
wel get to know him, he may make a good friend, however, dont mislead him...let him know that you are not interested in him like that.
2006-09-29 23:26:56 · answer #10 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋