that same day. I'm looking for the ways woman have handled the guild through the day, in the front of husband. I'll give you an example, I called wife during her lunch break, and her phone was actually off for almost 2 hours. When I finally got a hold of her she was entering the office. She told me she had a lunch meeting with a client, but sounded very different, trying to catch her breath a bit...and then asked me if everything was ok with me. I felt a very freaky vibe. And anyone ever encountered that from a wife (attitude) and found it to be the day they cheated on you.
2006-09-29 16:15:24 · 18 answers · asked by sailor28_1998 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes...she can take people to lunch in her business...but she usually tells me before hand, so i don't make plans for lunch date. we try to have lunch twice a month. she just acted different, and in the past few years she has had very little need for sex...something like once a month. She is very attractive.
2006-09-29 16:43:48 · update #1
Trust your instincts but back it up with solid proof before u accuse her of cheating. It could all be innocent.
2006-09-29 16:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waz married for 14 yearz,and let me tell you when a woman is cheating you will know, first thing is hiding from you (anything), making the "business"excuse is very common,leaving the room with "her" phone calls,working later than usual,buying new undergarments,(clothes), coloring her hair(salon),treating you personally like crap over little things,leaving you home with the kids so she can go do whatever,saying i'll be back at a certain time,then coming home whenever,talking/typing long hours on the internet,comparing"her" life to other women she knows that are single/married, But most of all knowing she cheated b4 iz the hardest thing to deal with,because when a person iz loyal to another person 100%, it can be devistating to ever "trust" that person again in life/love.
2006-09-30 01:16:42 · answer #2 · answered by Electric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell a lot of the time. In jealously, you will be very angry and wonder. But when there is something really going on, you can see a difference and it more saddens you, then angers you. You need find some more proof before making accusations. And don't ever get married again... unless you want this to happen. Not worth worrying about.
2006-09-29 23:22:09 · answer #3 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds kind of fishy. Like she ran out at lunch for a quickie. Does her lunch break actually allow her to be gone for 2 hours? Most people's lunch break lasts and hour...and I can't see why it would take her that long, is she the kind of worker that actually takes clients to lunch?
According to my psychological knowledge, it would sound like she's trying to project her feelings onto you...like she's the one with the problem, but she's asking you what your problem is. Probably as a way to hide what she's doing. If you're getting a bad vibe and things don't feel normal...I would look into this more. Try to catch her slipping up again. Don't do anything to crazy cause if you're wrong she'll be really upset. Try to be discrete.
2006-09-29 23:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by ~Lacey~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will be hard to tell, as she can be a good actor and play it like things are normal. You may want to keep an eye on her, at lunch hour and see if you can catch her in the act, by following her at lunch.
2006-09-30 01:55:33 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left out details. Like Lacey said does she have the type of job that she takes clients out to lunch? that's a big point to this and has it ever happened before or after that? I think you are a little insecure and la little jealous and to much time on your hands. And what were you calling her for, to take her out to lunch? to say you missed her?
2006-09-29 23:37:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and far most, you need to find out IF she was really cheating!! Once one cheats, they don't like you touching them like they use to. They seem with drawn, like having other things on their mind. They start making more and more excuses as to why their not there, where they been and so on. They usually don't want sex with you as much if any. Their stories change, they ignore you or go to lenghths to start arguments to be blameing you for something, because of their own guilt!
Good Luck
2006-09-29 23:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need physical evidence to back that up before the accusations fly. she could have been having a really bad day.
2006-09-29 23:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by Elly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when a woman does this there are many changes. in her. she thinks she has done something big but forgot how the fellow she was with will call her a cheap whore. . her actions will be like the oppisite as before she did it belive me on this , my opion?
2006-09-30 00:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be honest that is one of the easiest tricks by turning off your phone or saying your battery died. when i cheated on my spouse i said my battery died and i was with my friends. when i was with my cutie i had a good time and when i got home my man fought with me. i cried a little, played myself and gave him a ******** and went to sleep. he never found out. now i haven't done it for a while, since i have been living with him and i want to..
2006-09-29 23:20:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋