2 of my friends are friends with my enemy and i dont noe wut i should do! Should i stay friends with them or do i not need to hang around with them?
2006-09-29 16:08:39 · 25 answers · asked by Lizzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
omg, this has happened to me so many times. Usually, i tell my friends how i feel about them being friends with my 'enemy' and they stop talking to them. Im quite the b*tch about it though so nobody F*cks with me! lol
2006-09-29 16:11:52 · answer #1 · answered by hippiechild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some friends who are friends with someone I consider an enemy. I just won't go anywhere near my enemy and when I'm with my friends I usually don't say anything about my enemy.
2006-09-29 16:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should avoid having enemies! If this person has done something to hurt you, forgive them and let it go! Harboring hate in your heart is not hurting them one bit! It's only hurting you! I'm not saying you have to be friends with them, but show a little respect for the other friends, or you may lose them. Do you really want to do that? Show them you are the bigger person, they will be proud of you.
2006-09-29 16:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by rebecca_sld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want your enemy to know what your up to, avoid the other friends. Find new friends. If they were your true friends they would not hangout with someone that they know is your arche enemy.
2006-09-29 16:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by mischa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine to still be friends with them. Just let them know that you do not care for the other person, but don't bad-mouth them. Ask your friends to also respect your privacy when hanging out with the "enemy"
2006-09-29 16:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn this brings back memories.. What i did was I broke all ties with ma friends who were friends with my enemy, and swtiched schools to "start fresh" so to speak. These friends could turn on u in an instant, so be careful.
2006-09-29 16:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
QUIT HANGING WITH YOUR 2 FRIENDS /FIND TWO NEW FRIENDS BECAUSE IF THE 2 FRIENDS FIND OUT ABOUT YOU BEING A ENEMY WITH THEIR FRIEND THAT COULD LEAD TO SOME PROBLEMS AND END UP BEING A FOUR WAY CAT FIGHT[MEOW].LOL
2006-09-29 16:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that sorta happend to me a few years ago, i just sorta left it alone. friends (people wise) do change, new ones will come along, old ones might drift away. but close friends will always be by your side. just some random semi-depressing but inperational qoute thing that i just made up lol
2006-09-29 16:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by wintermag52 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have enemies
2006-09-29 16:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose that "friend" because if that supposed friend knew that the other person was your enemy would they really be friends with the enemy?
2006-09-29 16:10:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋