I'm so sick.... :((((?

Question

of stupid teenagers nowadays wasting away their lives instead of doing something worth while, sick of being so confused with guys, sick of being [literally] sick, sick of always being told I'm "so pretty" when I always look/feel so ugly, sick of being so introverted and shy all the time, sick of trying to fit in and never wanting to stand out, sick of having none to talk to about any of my problems, sick of having parents who love me but don't understand a d.amn thing about me, sick of having no true friends, sick of always backing down to do something fun.......I'm just plain sick of my life right about now.. :(

Answer 1

I sorta went through the same thing that you are going through. All of my friends were getting pregnant and, doing drugs and; loosing any hope of keeping scholarships. Scholarships, that they had already between their fingers. I wasn't as book smart but, I did have another type of intelligence called common sense intelligence. I never did drugs or went out to parties. I never got drunk, or did anything that would risk my reputation. Be firm in your beliefs and, let your parents know that you are a smart girl and; you do not intend to lose what you already have going for you. Boys are no good, they take longer to mature and; to learn what a girl wants/needs. There are even some 40 yr old "MEN" out there that can't figure that out. Do not make buys a priority in your life, go out and have a REAL good time with your life. Find friends who are interested in what you are interested in. Plan out what you look forward to doing with yourself when you are out of college, so that you have something to look forward to. Something, that will keep you focused on the FUTURE; not an immediate satisfaction type thing that usually only lasts all of 30 sec. In hind site when you are 23 yrs old you will laugh it off and, think to yourself how quickly it all went by; and then hold on because it only gets faster. Patience is a virtue and, Good Luck!

Answer 2

The things that you are sick of you can definitely do something about them: You are focusing upon the external when you should be focusing on the internal. You are looking to people, places and things to make you happy instead of taking responsibility for your own happiness. If a certain guy confuses you don't waste your time in trying to figure him out in short move on. Your issues with self-esteem do not seem valid; you don't need others to tell you that you are beautiful on the outside because beauty starts from with in. Never mind what others think of you. Try a new hair style, make your own fashion statement, make a stop by the makeup counter and try on a new lip gloss. You are an adolescent and most parents do not understand the many emotions that adolescents experience (male and female) unless the lines of communication are completely open. There is a gap between you and your parents right now, but you can work as a team to help close the gap. Try being more patient with you parents and the action will be recipocated. If you don't have at least one true friend right now you have the power to change that too! Start by being a true friend to someone else, and that act will be reciprocated as well. Why are you backing down when it comes to doing something fun? Is it because you don't really know how to have fun or you don't have anyone to have fun with? Well, with your new circle of friends that is sure to change.

Answer 3

Wow...you just said everything I wanted to say. I'm a teenage girl that...
>doesn't care about guys. I'll do that when I'm around 30 and settled.
>doesn't care about being sick. I'm always sick, and it can be fun.
>doesn't care about being ugly or pretty. I don't wear makeup and I don't intentionally try to be attractive.
>doesn't care about standing out, because at school, my "getting A's in all honors and AP classes" attitude and winning academic competitions and doing badminton and flute would make me stand out anyways.
>doesn't care about talking about problems unless they are extremely huge life changing situations. Basically said, I always have problems and am at the point where I don't really care anymore.
>doesn't care that my parents don't understand me, because I don't have that problem to start out with. My parents are extremely nice, outgoing, and understanding. They will sacrifice anything on my behalf and I feel so blessed. I'd NEVER have this problem. For example, if we move, they always first at the quality of education and the type of neighborhood. They want me to have friends my age and to live life like a normal teenager (not really, because a teenage girl that focuses on academics, athletics, and arts instead of gossip, makeup, and guys isn't normal in the US. But, my parents say that it is very normal in India, so I take their word for it).
>doesn't care about false friends. If he or she are false, then it's his or her problem and he or she will feel guilty about it. I can see right through him or her and I just ignore him or her. Eventually, he or she will stop sucking up and go back to doing his or her business.
>doesn't care that if I'm alone. In fact, I have a lot more fun when I'm alone. Instead of hitting the mall with friends, I sit down with Legos/K'nex/Magnetix and build, read a great book, or play a Nintendo64/computer game. I don't do what "normal" US teenage girls do.

The truth is that life is everything. Sometimes life is fun, and sometimes it's not. Sometimes life is boring, and sometimes it's not. Sometimes life is a b*tch, and sometimes it's angelic. Sometimes life is hell, and sometimes it's heaven. Whatever it is, I've got only one of it and I'm not going to waste it by fretting over crappy "teenage-girl" issues.

Take a break and go help the world instead of being on Yahoo Answers. You could volunteer nearby, tutor children, recycle, or at least do your homework. You'll give yourself a better future and you'll feel better about it.

Answer 4

I feel like that a lot too. Today was one of those days. I guess im not the only one. When im feeling like this, I watch a good movie, write, listen to music, etc., I do things I enjoy. This makes me feel a lot better and I start to realize life isn't so bad, even though I had a really bad day. I just try to remember every day is a new day and a fresh start. :) I hope you get well soon!

Answer 5

Hey don't be that way. I'm here if you need someone to talk to. Just send me an E mail. I'll respond right away. It's not as bad as you think it is. You're just at tough time in your life. One of those times that are supposed to make us stronger. I know it sounds stupid. But it's the way it is. One thing thats going to help you is to try and understand what it is that makes everybody not understand you. Whatever it is can be made right. If that makes any sense to you? Please hang in there.

Answer 6

This helped me deal with the anger and hostility I felt toward my sister and her husband> today is all angels day, this past week was angels week> coincidently I bought a book in a thrift store about real episodes of angel encounters, I started watching Animal Miracles on tv this week, I started watching touched by an Angel this week, I went to the Vatican website and read many of Pope Benedicts messages and homilies. I asked my guardian Angel to help me. All this has helped. Alot.

Answer 7

You sound like a typical teenager,you'll get over these feeling at around 21 when your real life dramas start kicking in. Then you'll be sick of your job,paying bills ,you partner kids etc. Its a never ending battle but hey thats life. Think of your blessings.

Answer 8

That's really sad, because you have so much to look forward to and be happy about. Try doing some volunteer work at a childrens hospital where babies and children with cancer, AIDS, heart defects, etc, battle daily for just one more day, one chance to be happy. Look outside of the box, and stop being the center of your own world...you may find you have much more to be happy about and thankful for, than you ever realized

Answer 9

The teenage years are so hard. That is a time in my life I would never want to go through again. Good news is, it doesn't last forever. But, as an adult you go through rough times too. Things will get better for you. :)

Answer 10

allot of times when your young we thingk our parents dont have a clue, but they do remember what it is like.it just seems like you need some sort of a boost. why dont you try a new look? that seems to change the way people feel about themselves when they experment with different looks.this will pass..it's not easy being young these days