Lets say you like a boy, and you've been liking him for quite a while now, and he knows. But he still hasnt made a move. I mean I really like this guy alot! And i know he likes me too, but he seems like he's afraid to make the first move, or to ask me out. We talk and flirt, but nothing more. Other guys ask me out, but he's the one I want over everybody else. Should I wait for him, or move on and try and forget about him?...
2006-09-29 15:04:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Guys ur welcome to put ur input from a guys perspective!
2006-09-29 15:12:27 · update #1
I think you should make sure he knows you like him. Also, some guys are just afraid and don't know how to make a move so maybe you could put your hand next to his and see if he will grab it. If you like him then don't move on.
2006-09-29 15:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by tina*21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep coooooool, girl. From my perspective, which is an older woman with lots of experience (and mistakes!), I used to be aggressive too....and you know, if I had it to do all over again? I'd always leave the move to the guy.
Best wishes,
2006-09-29 22:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Esther 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move b4 he does cause it sounds like he might be a lil shy TR?UST me i practically made the first move on me and my BF but i gave him a clue like this is what i said "Britt dont ask out another guy." and then he asked me out
2006-09-29 22:11:14 · answer #3 · answered by Britt_09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just have good conversations. Halloween is coming up tell him you want to go to a haunted house but are a bit afraid and ask him if he has ever gone to one. See what he says...if he has and said it wasn't bad, tell him he needs to be your body guard when you go. Then see what he says.
2006-09-29 22:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put all your eggs into one basket. I did that for 5 months, and as soon as I started dating another guy, the one I wanted begged me to give him another shot. Of course I gave it to him, and that was 7 months ago. We're together, and we're happy!
2006-09-29 22:08:17 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on some music and ask him to dance. Works everytime.
2006-09-29 22:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Stiletto ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a loser if he KNOWS you like him he shouldnt be scared to ask you out... maybe you dont want to go out with someone like that if you do you initiate it and say lets go to the movies on friday or something
2006-09-29 22:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by incubabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out...there is no rule that says the girl can't ask the guy
2006-09-29 22:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the moves on him
2006-09-29 22:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by tink19812003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out, chances are he's waiting for YOU to say it.
2006-09-29 22:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by gypsy_sabine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋