The thing is...I've known and dated this guy on and off for about five years. We practically grew up together. He told me that he was in love with me right before I left to go to college. The problem is that he cheated and got another female pregnant. He is in juvenile camp now and will be getting out in december the same month his baby is due. He is writing me letters and love poems, continuously apologizing for what he did...should I accept him back into my heart?
2006-09-29 15:01:15 · 14 answers · asked by focusedbrat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Never
2006-09-29 15:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Puhleasse! What a LOSER! He's a louse if he is writing letters to you when he has a pregnant honey somewhere else. And he's in juvenille detention? What's wrong with you? That's how a high school student would behave and yet you write that you went to college. Don't sell yourself short. Find a college grad (hopefully one without a criminal background). There are plenty of fish in the sea and in my experience, anytime you trade one in, you are trading up.
2006-09-29 22:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He's involved with a baby now. And being in juvenile camp should be your second concern. Look at the big picture and run, don't walk to the nearest exit.
2006-09-29 22:06:14 · answer #3 · answered by Tamara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT. For one thing, "once a cheater, always a cheater" is SO TRUE. He only wants you back for his own selfish reasons, not for your best interest. He will never change even if he thinks he can. Another temptation will always come along. More betrayal, more lies, more excuses and blame. And how can you ever trust him or feel close to him with not only the betrayal but another woman's CHILD, not for 18 years, but for a lifetime? Don't respond to his letters anymore. It's manipulation. Completely ignore him and move on. It will be painful and difficult for awhile, but it WILL PASS. Don't give in. You deserve someone who wants you and only you.
2006-09-29 22:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Stevie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a reason for the off and on parts of ur realationship...and if he cheated, got another girl pregnant and now is crawling back....i wouldn't i can promise you there are way better guys out there...Don't feel you need to keep this one happy, he'll live
2006-09-29 22:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If the boy has the slightest shred of decency, he'll marry the girl he got pregnant, which I doubt he will. One way or the other, he's committed to child support for the next eighteen years, at least. Do you love him enough to share that commitment?
2006-09-29 22:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by eyeque195 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not accept him back. You don't need nobody that is in juvenile camp.I am sure you will find some body else that will love you.
2006-09-29 22:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by lanie1713 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You should not.
And also, he's only writing you letters now because he's lonely. You have no guarantee that when he gets out he's going to come running to you.
2006-09-29 22:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not marry him, the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour.
2006-09-29 22:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is too much a heavy asset to manage. dump him for ever
2006-09-29 22:11:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sweet Dragon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋