2006-09-29 14:56:48 · 24 answers · asked by Mark C 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
What time should I come?
2006-09-29 15:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
As a single woman, I can tell you I would not accept. It would probably completely turn me off the fellow in fact. First off, there are ALOT of wackos in the world, going to a guys apartment on a first date just isn't smart. Second, being invited to a guys apartment IMPLIES ulterior motives. Whether or not you have those intentions does not matter. I would feel like the man expected more from me than just my company. I do not even let men pick me up at my house for first dates. I meet them out somewhere. I would guess not all women feel the same, but I would not accept such an offer.
2006-09-29 15:09:32 · answer #2 · answered by susan w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't if you actually like this woman. I wouldn't go for that and I am woman. If you did that I would get the impression that you are cheap and don't want to pay to go eat at a restaurant or an even worse quality in a man you can't afford it.
Not only that it would be very obvious that your inviting the woman over because you are going to try to sleep with them after wards.
The only woman that will fall for that is desperate, dumb, or a whore. Trust me you don't want any of the three at your house.
Sorry if I offended you I am just being honest with you. As a woman I know how women think.
2006-10-02 15:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by lakecity21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds delicious, but going to a guys place for a first date might be a bit much. A public place for a limited time period is much more reasonable and safer. Save the steak for date number 3.
2006-09-29 15:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by therego2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id enjoy it but i would feel awkward if i was going to his house on the first date because then it can give them the idea that u might want more than just steak if u get what im trying to say there
2006-09-29 15:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by soccerbuddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I just met you - no, I wouldn't feel safe going to your house. But if we knew each other, like through work, and had developed a friendship, then when you finally asked me out on a first date, I would feel comfortable going to your house.
2006-09-29 18:12:46 · answer #6 · answered by gator girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say be original do it your way. I didn't ask my girlfriend to a movie the 1st time i asked her out. I asked her if she wanted to walk around town. I told her to choose a place to eat (like a resturant) and she choseGummi bears from the candy shop we live by. =)
2006-09-29 15:01:07 · answer #7 · answered by PikachuIsHoTT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't really mind.
What you do doesn't really matter to the girl because hanging out with you is probably the more important thing about the evening.
As long as whatever you're doing isn't a complete bore it should be fine.
2006-09-29 14:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by Debbie R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah thats a nice intimate date. Throw on a soft cd and some scented candles.
2006-09-29 15:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better to go out on the first date.I would not feel comfortable going to a man I did not know apt.
2006-09-29 14:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I`m sorry, but if I were a girl I would be freaked out to go to some dude`s house. Better take her out. Oh, and don`t forget to bring her flowers and chocolate, and tell her she looks pretty.(even if she looks terrible lol)
2006-09-29 15:05:45 · answer #11 · answered by peacelovepunk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋