Alirght I have a girl for a friend and were like close good friends and stuff and everytime I see her I see her with another boy and hes my freind too and so all three of us hang out and stuff, then today I found out she was going out with him and I was like what thell I didnt knew that, cuse I thought they were like best awsome friends cause this girl shes has alot of guy freinds and so I thought they were just friends, and now I feel kinda bummed out, like oh well and the question im asking is how to deal with it and get over it
2006-09-29 14:54:54 · 6 answers · asked by kickstartmystomache 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
being friends with someone of the opposite sex can be hard. i'm a girl that has always had lots of guy friends. you can't help but feel overprotective. i have done the same thing with some of my friends. i didn't approve of who they were dating and didn't like them for one reason or another. but you have to take a step back a realize that it isn't your place to tell them who they should or shouldn't date. if they person if obviously bad for them, like abuse, please say something, but other then that, let them make their own decisions and try to get to know that other person. they are going to be important in your friends life too and it really is better if you all can get along.
2006-09-29 14:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the way you wrote it, it sounds like you liked her a little bit. The way to get over it is to be okay with it. If your jelous (I'm not saying you are) oviously it will be hard. If you want her to be happy, and if she is happy going out with this other guy, don't try to stop her. You can't be wierd around her, because she'll then know somethings wrong. And that will lead to arguements,then disagreeing, then you won't be as close as you are now. Anyways, just do your best you can do with ecnoring it. Then if they brake up, give her a few weeks, then ask her out yourself (if you like her that is).
2006-09-29 22:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by anyonomous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go smoke some trees of green and chill out for a while. also lay low dont talk to her for a while let her call u that how u see how good of a friend she is.. if she should ask if something is wrong tell her whats on your mind..
2006-09-29 21:59:02 · answer #3 · answered by jamesonleadfoot77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure of what you are doing before you find out that you aren't doing what you thought you were.
2006-09-29 22:01:36 · answer #4 · answered by black jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah exactlley.move along move along just to make it through.dont feel bad,just forget her and look for another girl.
2006-09-29 22:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by janelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Even when your hope is gone, move along, move along just to make it through"
2006-09-29 21:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Drake ☮ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋