Can anyone tell me what their idea of an awesome wife is?

Question

I am getting married October 21st to a wonderful man. But to my parents their understanding of what I good wife is different from mine, so I was curious to see what other women or mens understanding of a good wife was.

Answer 1

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copied and pasted from a previouse question but it still applies.
i am just talking about my wife, it to me is the perfect wife
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there is so much history with my wife and her past as far as adversity and overcoming challenges usually considerd to much for most people. as i see people breaking down or falling apart in comparison to the silliest things. for all that she has been through in her life, i love her incredibly. i entered her life as i thought i could be a shining star in her life as the preverbial knight in shining armour, i didnt feel sorry for my wife and the past it was more admiration for her accomplishments and the ability to survive. so when i entered the picture i thought of myself as a possible (savior) (not being sacreligious) we have been together over three years and married for just over a 11/2 and through this time i realized my wife was put on this earth as a blessing to so many people and has effected so many people, every one that meets my wife has the same take on her she is a true jewle unequaled by most, people seem unable to refuse talking to her as once your in her presence you words are so relaxed and flow from your mouth like poetry becuase her being near you feel at ease as if your in the company of somone you know you can count on and befriend with ease.loving her in the beging and to this point and what looks life the rest of my life has always been easy so easy you almost become affraid you cant compete tomorrow with what you feel today, but somhow the next day comes and seeing her face, feeling her touch you realize that yesterday's thought was foolish and you wonder how you can top the feeling the next day.i have plenty more fualts then my wife should be able to handle as should any wife ever have to endure, and although my fualts are nothing like cheating or alchahol or drugs. i am inspired each day to at least try a little harder to make her proud of me. when i am down i know for a fact she is there. when she is mad at me i dont doubt her she loves me, when i mad she fixes things.she is a nut in the best of ways, she mirrors me in every way, she is my rock. she is the only reason why i am happy from day to day and aspire to be happy when im 80. she jokingly suggest she should be anointed sainthood for having to put up with me, but in reality its not as much a joke as its a fact. she is an awsome mother ,step mother and wife of a household that totals 7 of us (5kids) she is this great sister and daughter to her biological family and as comment and compliments abound she has become the most loved inlaw in my family. only the lord knows where we go from here but no matter where or what she and i do the lord blessed me with knowing her and life will never be long enough to truely enjoy a rare unique truly loving lovable consent person as my bride.

for those who are curiouse my bride comes in to "answers" as sxybrwneyedgrl. if you get a chance to meet her you'll understand what i mean when i say thank you lord as you have blessed me with the closes thing to perfection on earth possible

Answer 2

I met my hubby in 10th grade in highschool and we r going on 22 years now! A great wife or HUBBY is someone who ALWAYS thinks about how the other would feel BEFORE they do something. A good wife to me is when he gets home from a 12 hour work day is having a hot meal on the table- running HIM a hot bubble bath and putting his towel in the dryer so its warm when he gets out of the tub! Its always taking the time to do special little things for him so he feels like your KING! Things dont always take alot of money. Send him a heart shaped pizza to work for his lunch! Tie g strings to his car attenae when he is at work, Before having oral with him put some pop rocks in your mouth so all the fizzing and crackling- kinda lights up his life! My hubby loved that! Never let each other forget or feel unloved. Take the time every day to show your love for him even if he forgets! Communicate not argue! NEVER EVER call names during a fight!!!!! Most of all never go to bed mad at each other! Write in red lipstick on the shower stall to think of you when he is slippery and wet. Tie a bunch of bright colored g strings to a front yard tree so when he comes home he knows he was missed! Forget yellow ribbons- the g strings will get his attention more. Always remind him and tell him what a wonderful lover he is. LOVE EACH OTHER THRU GOOD AND BAD!

Answer 3

become fascinated in a healthful weight-help plan. do countless the cooking and procuring and tell her you prefer to consume at homestead extra and stay removed from speedy nutrition. according to probability your well-known practitioner suggested so, or maybe though? LOL It would not harm you the two i'm constructive. healthful eating is solid for each individual. Then, recommend you're taking a fabulous brisk walk collectively interior the morning, or journey motorcycles or connect a couples tennis club collectively, and then prepare collectively or inspire her to make prepare dates with different women she meets. by no potential ever come good out and tell her to drop some pounds. That makes a individual sense undesirable. constructive encouragement is the only way, and in case you do it collectively it rather is superb.

Answer 4

A good wife is a lot of things. The most important thing is to be sure you love him enough to be yourself. Don't try to be someone your not. Obviously he loves you because he asked you to marry him. He will accept you the way you are. Just do things for him because you want to not because you have to. Make sure you keep open communication. Just be yourself!!

Answer 5

Marriage is ...should be made up of a lot of understanding, even more patience, and a whole lot of acceptance. I don't nag my husband, I give him room to make his own mistakes and I accept him for all the he is...and isn't. I understand that he is not perfcet, and and I accept his flaws, even as much as they drive me insane. So, lastly alI can say about a good wife is, no matter how crazy he makes you, ya just have to fake it and act as sane as you possibly can.

Answer 6

An awesome wife is a woman with a great personality. Outer beauty fades, inner beauty stays forever.

Answer 7

she has to be very very beautiful, can't be ugly. People are offended by what i say, even tho there is nothing wrong with having standards. She has to be very very intelligent to, and sweet, and knows how to bake apple pies. She also has to be extremely rich and devoted to her husband and never cheats, and gives good sex, after all, can a man not have some pleasure in his life? the answer is yes he should be allowed to have pleasure, therefore he should have as much sex as he desires. This is the true definition of a good wife.

Answer 8

Proverbs 31:10-31
even if your not a christian this still applies

10 Who can find a good wife? For she is worth far more than rubies that make one rich. 11 The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will never stop getting good things. 12 She does him good and not bad all the days of her life. 13 She looks for wool and flax, and works with willing hands. 14 She is like ships that trade. She brings her food from far away. 15 She rises while it is still night and makes food for all those in her house. She gives work for the young women to do. 16 She gives careful thought to a field and buys it. She plants grape-vines from what she has earned. 17 She makes herself ready with strength, and makes her arms strong. 18 She sees that what she has earned is good. Her lamp does not go out at night. 19 She puts her hands to the wheel to make cloth. 20 She opens her hand to the poor, and holds out her hands to those in need. 21 She is not afraid of the snow for those in her house, for all of them are dressed in red. 22 She makes coverings for herself. Her clothes are linen cloth and purple. 23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sits among the leaders of the land. 24 She makes linen clothes and sells them. She brings belts to those who trade. 25 Her clothes are strength and honor. She is full of joy about the future. 26 She opens her mouth with wisdom. The teaching of kindness is on her tongue. 27 She looks well to the ways of those in her house, and does not eat the bread of doing nothing. 28 Her children rise up and honor her. Her husband does also, and he praises her, saying: 29 "Many daughters have done well, but you have done better than all of them." 30 Pleasing ways lie and beauty comes to nothing, but a woman who fears the Lord will be praised. 31 Give her the fruit of her hands, and let her works praise her in the gates.

Answer 9

why does it matter? he wants to marry you because he love you just the way you are. Be yourself and keep the lines of communication open and don't ever go to bed mad at each other. good luck on your marriage.

Answer 10

Someone who is willing to accept you for who you are....be your best friend, wife, lover, mother. Someone that you feel you can tell anything to and not be judged.
Hmmmm....thats my wife *S*