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Ok dont get me wrong but, if I shot myself, would I go to hell? I am christain. I just fell like I'm not wanted anymore. All I am treated like is **** and what do I get? nothing

2006-09-29 14:42:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities Other - Arts & Humanities

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Do you know they once did a survey where they questioned people who had SURVIVED jumping off of a high bridge. They asked all of them what their thoughts were as they fell. EVERY ONE of them said the same thing. They all said that as they fell, they suddenly felt that there was nothing in the world that couldn't be fixed...EXCEPT the fact that they had just jumped off a bridge. Don't do it hun. See someone for help. They have wonderful therapists out there, and if you need an anti-depressant medication, they can get it for you. It could help.
**If you want to see how MUCH you are wanted, try doing something like joining a Habitat for Humanity group. There will be people you will meet there who will become lifelong friends, and you will feel good about yourself for doing an amazingly wonderful thing. Also, it's actually kind of fun!

2006-09-29 15:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0 0

So sorry that you feel this way. There are people who care, it's just sad that they haven't let you know recently.

Let me share a little secret - you can make your own happiness and when you do, it grows! To do this, think of some things you like - a place nearby that makes you smile because it is so beautiful, a thing you like doing merely because it's fun, etc. Then go do it... then in a day or a week go and do it again. Think about why it makes you smile and then ask yourself if you would miss it if you could never do it again? (because if you shot yourself that is exactly the case).

As a Christian (and I am also), perhaps you could find your way into church.... most aren't just about Sundays anymore. Most have many activities to provide you a purpose, some fun, and ways to help (which means that you would definitely feel needed!). There are so many people who are unfortunate - can you imagine how grateful they would be just to have a little help and a smile.... from YOU?

Best of luck to you - I really mean that!

2006-09-29 21:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by AnInquiringMind 2 · 0 0

First off give up on Christianity. Most of your problems will go away once you no longer have that junk hung on you.
If you need to believe in someone then believe in yourself. You are the center of everything. So are everyone else. Time being a liquid allows this to happen. Everything you see on the outside of you is also inside of you. Christians worship a being that according to their book is going to take people and put them in a burning lake of fire.
You're better than that!
Humanity needs you to work on problems like one world one government.
Society all people should be guaranteed a hand, Food Clothing Shelter Education Medical. A hand has five fingers.
I hope this helps. You becoming a person of conviction will change the way that you are treated and perceived

2006-09-29 22:11:52 · answer #3 · answered by baughwawn 1 · 0 0

Get Help

Go to a teacher

Speak to a minister or priest

Talk to a police officer

I thought that way once because my parents were so stricter and judgemental.

Your life matters. There is a reason that you are here.

If you want to kill yourself, I do not care about where you end up ; But the people who know you will live in Hell for the rest of their time on Earth.

You sound whiney and imature.

2006-09-29 22:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by thesilkavenger 2 · 0 0

Suicide is a mortal sin. Even if you are christian who knows for sure except God himself. If you wanted to see you know there's no way of coming back right?! Please don't do this! You are worth it everyone is. People only treat you like s* if you let them. My grandparents committed suicide when i was a little girl and to this day i hate them for it. I think my life would be so much better if i had them her with me. You don't know how much i still cry for them and i'm 21 yrs old. Trust me there is someone out there who needs you. Maybe you haven't found them yet but you will. Everyone is here for a reason!! Don't give up your life for anyone!Keep your head up...it sounds to me you know what your thinking is wrong or you wouldn't be asking this question. You need to talk to someone about your problems, don't take the easy way out. Your too smart!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-29 21:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Curious J. 5 · 0 0

I'm sorry you're feeling bad Kaitie but I promise things will get better.
Please find help immediately. Call a suicide hotline or some professional. If someone or something is depressing you just get away from it for a few days. There is always a better way out .

2006-09-29 21:48:12 · answer #6 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0 0

I don't really like the whole going to hell situation, but if you feel depressed, commiting suicide is the easy way out.We all have our times where we stumble and fall.We just need to get back up on the horse again and keep on riding into the sunset!

2006-09-29 21:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by biggirl b 2 · 0 0

You are wanted. You are needed. You are loved.
We all go through periods of testing and trial. Just ask God for strength to carry on until life gets better.
Many times, I asked God to change my attitude if the situation was not going to change. Funny thing, but my attitude changed and so did the situation.
Did you know that there are people praying for you right now?

2006-09-29 21:51:40 · answer #8 · answered by GreenHornet 5 · 1 0

if u shot urself, lots of people will lose u in ur life that might love u like ur parents they seem to hate u but they love u...........ur a negative person but u can fix that. there is no hell or heaven. im a christen too but i dont belive in god. if htere was god, how did he make the big bang, there was nothing in space. i wont hurt u, insult u, or anything mean,,,, i just want to help

2006-09-29 22:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jeffy 1 · 0 0

after reading your question, I just feel like hugging you and telling you not to be scared. Im no expert, but I am christian too with strong faith. I had a friend who OD'd and just about survived, and it effected me big time. feel free to email me proinsias1503@yahoo.ie. I live in Ireland, and maybe I can give you some advice that I have learnt from my parish. Keep your chin up. LIFE IS GOOD

2006-09-29 21:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by Proinsias 2 · 0 0

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