As you know I have a grade 2 and a grade 3. ( My grade 2 child is is smarter than my grade 3) Wel, my grade 3 keeps saying she's the oldest so my grade 2, he can't get the first cookie, has to say nice things to her. It's just so confusing! So, is there any suggestions to teach me how to handle them? Because I really feel sorry for my grade 2 . thank you if you understand.
2006-09-29 14:10:24 · 4 answers · asked by HaHaHoHoHeeHee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes, dont allow her to bully the younger child .. YOU are the parent, YOU set the rules ....
Start to teach them that NO ONE is entitled to anything ... you get what you work for in this life.
2006-09-29 14:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, never say that one is smarter than another. Each person is gifted in different ways and your child in third grade just needs to discover his/her talents. In the meantime, your younger child is academically ahead of your older child which can be frustrating for an older sibling but also gives them an opportunity to work together and help each other. Make sure your older child isn't suffering from low self esteem. Why do you feel sorry for the younger one?
2006-09-29 21:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by when's my next vacation??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your children a favor, give them up for adoption. You are obviously unfit for parenting. You also need to go back to school to learn how to write.
2006-09-29 21:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being oldest or youngest shouldn't account for anything. I know it's tough, but you need to treat them fairly. Alternate to keep it fair and if you have to keep track, keep track!
Good luck!
2006-09-29 21:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋