There is this girl in my grade (10) who hates me for no reason whatsoever. She loves to talk about me but it doesn't bother me much. Untill now. She told my friend I was anorexic and bulemic. These are completly false statements. I am 5'3, 15 and a good weight for my size. I am skinny. I feel no need to throw up or starve myself as I am comfortable with my body image. This girl "Jaime" says she has proof that I am anorexic and bulemic. Like I said these are not true. I never throw up food on purpose ( only times is when I have stomach viruses). Last year I used to skip lunch but never had a weight or disorder. These are serious issues and shouldn't be joked about. Eating disorders can be deadly.Why is she saying this about me? People say its odd she says it about me because she seems to be anorexic. What should I do? Thanks in advance.
2006-09-29 13:25:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Shes not overweight shes a small person.
2006-09-29 13:32:57 · update #1
i dont know, but if you were around me, nobody would accuse you of having a weight disoder....lol
2006-09-29 13:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I agree that she should not joke about an eating disorder. If you say that these things are not true, then she can't prove them. If you beleive that she has an eating disorder, then I'm guessing that others might agree with you and somebody might have asked her if she has an eating disorder. So she is saying that your'e anorexic to turn the attention away from herself. But really, she's probably just insecure and wants to make you look bad in order to make herself feel better. I hope I helped. =]
2006-09-29 20:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Hanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard of that theory. the accuser is usually the one doing the wrong thing? well maybe your right and she is the one with the eatting disorder. i wouldnt worry too much about it. soon it will all pass. just look at her as nothing but a sh*t talker. if she can talk the talk see if she can walk the walk. and yes eatting disorders are nothign to be joked around with, its a serious issue these days cuz of media.
2006-09-29 20:31:00 · answer #3 · answered by anthony y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is an ugly thing. By making you insecure, she is winning her battle to feel better about her self. Don't let her win. People like that feed off of attention, the more you argue with her and validate the conversation, the more she will persist. Ignore her. You know who you are, your friends know who you are. Who cares what she thinks? This too shall pass, as soon as you graduate...
2006-09-29 20:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by Tifferz 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's probably jealous of you. Is she overweight? She might be jealous that you're not. She obviously doesn't feel too good about herself, otherwise she wouldn't feel the need to make things up about you. I'd ask her what prrof she has. Call her bluff. If she can't proove it, she'll be the one to look like a fool.
2006-09-29 20:31:51 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems she is the one with the problems, and her bad karma will come back to her.
Just concentrate on your own supportive friends, be seen enjoying life, eating normally (dont skip meals though) and people around you will see the truth.
2006-09-29 20:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe thats her way of saying sha is anorexic and bulmic. or maybe she is tring to take the spot light off her and try to put on someone else. i use to do it to my brother. i hope that made sense to you.
2006-09-29 20:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by starving_2b_thinner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not bulimic the don'y worry about it. I think its something to be laughed at cause girls are usually stupid for doing it.
2006-09-30 00:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably trying to hide her eating disorder and picks on you to hide it.
2006-09-29 20:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore it. act the same way. ur friends should know u enough to know that ur not like that. a guy used to call me fat ( i'm not and it was really annoying) i just kept ignorring it and he stopped. tell ur friends and talk to them about it.
2006-09-30 00:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by iluvmihorse12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't have both of those eating disorders at the same time. they contradict each each other. right there is your proof that she is lying.
2006-09-29 20:37:14 · answer #11 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋