im 14 and me and this girl used to be close when i was in the seventh grade she used to always tell me she loved me then flirt with other guys in front of me,she was a grade older than me then It was time for her to go to highschool and when she left thats when i realized i loved her to a year passed i didnt know if i was ever goona see her again then i didnt get accepted to the school i was supposed to go to ,so i went the same school as her i bumped into the hallway with her on the first day of school i asked her is that you! then she came to me and asked for a hug,then one day i was at lunch looking around and i saw some guy wrapped around her and i felt heart broken i didnt sleep that night till 3:00 in the morning i couldnt stop thinking about her and the whole year when she was out of my life i couldnt stop thinking about her,she not my first love its some other girl but scince then i didnt say hi to her no more,now my sister says everytime she walks past me she looks straight
2006-09-29 13:08:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
forward like i dont even exists,and when she first saw me again i didnt see a big smile on her face like i expected but i see her in the hall ways every day i still love her,and miss her i never got to tell her i love her then one day i was very sick i kept throwing up in school i threw up so much i thought i was about to die then all icould think about when i threw up was her and that if i deid i couldnt tell her i love her,and i never will get to
2006-09-29 13:13:26 · update #1
im trying to move on but it seems i cant all day she in every thought i have i know i will never forget her
2006-09-29 13:15:23 · update #2
Wow, I am sorry you are going through this. I don't think she has forgotten about you ... but it does sound like she might be a bit of a flirt and likes the attention that people give her. It sounds like you really care about her, but she might not feel the same way. You could tell her that you like her and see what happens. Or, if you want to get over her, or if she doesn't like you back, you could try to focus your attention on other things or activities ... or even another person. You will meet a lot of different people in your life, and some of them you are really going to love ... but they might not be a part of your life forever. You have to learn how to let go, and it is really, really hard sometimes! But it makes you stronger and a better person. Best wishes to you!!
2006-09-29 13:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by J.Z. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this age, you will go through some strong emotions. You will feel tihngs more deeply than others. Girls go through changes. Say hi when you see her, but that is all. Find another girl, who deserves your attention. These things happen and girls come and go. You sound like a nice kid, so just have fun being a kid.
2006-09-29 13:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like during the year you were absent from her life, she found different interests... in other people, other guys... & just isn't used to having you in her life any more, isn't focused on you any more.
As they say>>> out of sight, out of mind.
Try making sure (on purpose) that she notices you more... & see if it makes a difference.
If it doesn't make a difference, then she's definitly lost interest in having a close relationship with you.
2006-09-29 13:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enable her pass... what she's doing to you isn't honest. she has no precise to be mad at you for dozing with yet another lady, even even if it really is someone she understand. you probably did no longer have a duty to her anymore. it really is unlike you cheated on her and to boot she probaly slept with her new boyfriend earlier they broke up. for sure she nonetheless has emotions for you yet doesn't understand what she needs. Confront her and merely say ok "it doesn't understand that i slept with some different person, even even if it really is someone you recognize. yet what concerns is i love you and that i desire you and under no circumstances her. You both desire me now or you do not. and also you'll't supply me an i do not understand. that's both convinced or no." if she says no then enable her pass....
2016-10-16 02:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by doreen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish a boi would feel lik dat about me just forget her u deserve better wait for a while and i promise the right girl would come along and you will be happy that you forgot about her anyways good luck im in 7th grade so i kno
2006-09-29 13:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by h_townjessica13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she got stuck in the social bounderies of high school, she cares too much of waht people think of her and prob does want to talk to you just doesnt want that talked about
2006-09-29 13:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by lv23smurf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get old and bitter and forget,
I did
(sigh) but that was a long......long time ago (tear)
2006-09-29 13:11:03 · answer #7 · answered by jokedrugs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on, she obviously has. she probably said that she loved you as in she thought you were cute as adults do.
2006-09-29 13:12:27 · answer #8 · answered by Glitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just forget her sweetheart
2006-09-29 13:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋