okay this girl has been My BFF forever but she just totally annoys me sometimes. i mean like if i do something she doesn't like, like not love her favorite music as much as her or something like that she just totally ignores me. then when i ask her what's up she just says " oh nothing, you just annoy me". (like she doesn't irk me). i want to just be mature so i say " hey i'm sorry if i offended you or something" and she just goes on ingnoring and talking over my head to another friend.
help me out i don't know what to do, i don't want to end this friendship i just wanna know how to tell her that she can't treat me like this. she can't be my BFF just when she wants to. i want her to know i don't work like that.
PS i really need some advise i'm the only girl in a boy dominant family and my mom doesn't care.
2006-09-29 12:54:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we used to laugh with each other all the time and now we still do but i mean she says something to offend me and i am like whatever and when i do something that offends her she holds a grudge for forever and a day even when i apologize she's still ignores me.
2006-09-29 13:32:41 · update #1
Hey there.
Next time a situation like the one you described above occurs, ignore her. Continue to ignore her, for days if you have to, until she asks you what's wrong.
You can still talk to her while ignoring her; simply say a quick 'Hi, gotta run!', and leave her hanging. She will eventually realize that something is different, and she will approach you to find out what is wrong.
Even if she acts mad or b*tchy when she does ask you, keep your cool. Take this time to tell her pretty much what you said here about her; "You've been my BFF for so long now, and even though we have so much in common I respect our differences, and I just wish you would do the same for me."
Let her know how much her friendship means to you. Have this conversation with love; it's not a contest to see who is more sharp.
I hope you find this helpful. Good luck with your friend, I'm sure it will all work out.
2006-09-29 13:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is not your best friend. If she was your best friend she would not say you annoy her just cause you don't love everything she does. Dump her as your "friend". Or stop hanging out with her much and find a new best friend.
2006-09-29 12:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a best friend to me. Friends accept eachother for who they are, not try to transform them into something they want them to be so they get along better. Tell he to f*ck herself. If she wants you as a friend she will try to fix it. But if she doesn't trust me you'll be better off.
2006-09-29 12:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by MaNdYb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is sooooo ridiculous! sara desires to recover from it because of the fact its not jens fault in any respect that saras weigh down likes jen. thats completely middle college drama. human beings would desire to strengthen up sometime.
2016-10-18 05:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that she is being an idiot getting mad at some thing like that. be mean to her for once and maybe she might come to her senses.
2006-09-29 12:59:26 · answer #5 · answered by Glitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is a BFF? (it's also annoying to assume people knows what that means if you want help)
2006-09-29 12:59:20 · answer #6 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away from the fool
2006-09-29 12:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by fayem7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋