Well, I like three guys. There is Brandon who is seventeen, Jay who is thirteen, and Jacob who is thirteen. I am thirteen. I want to know who I should go out with.....I don't think I'll have a chance with Jay....I know he only likes me as a friend. But I really like Jacob.....and I don't think I have a chance with Brandon either. So, should I make the first move with Jacob? I'm just SOO confused! What should I do or say if I even do make the first move? I don't even know if Jacob even has a girlfriend. Or maybe Jay...he sometimes will stop in the hallway and just look at me as I'm passing. I REALLY like Jacob though....and please don't answer that I am too young to go out. I'm nearly in tears right now because I am just so confused. I don't know what to do! I just want to get away! I just want to dissappear! I want to leave! Forever! I just like them ALL so much! But...I like Jacob the most. Once Jacob and I were talking and he smiled...like he was trying to get me to like him or
2006-09-29 12:31:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
something. He nodded his head a little bit and bit his bottom lip a little....does this mean anything?
2006-09-29 12:32:44 · update #1
I KNOW I have no chance with Brandon. I have known that for a LONG time.
2006-10-01 11:17:11 · update #2
Go for Jacob. Sounds like you like him the most, plus you probably have a better chance with him based on the things you said. You never know until you try.
2006-09-29 14:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kenneth S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for Jacob. Brandon seems a bit too old for you and Jay just likes you as a friend, so go for Jacob :)
2006-09-29 19:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brandon is a bit to old for you so you could try Jacob.If you want to know more just ask his friends or your friends and I am sure you will find something.
Go step by step with Jacob so if it is something bad (which probably isn't) you can switch the whole thing around
GOOD LUCK! =) =)
2006-09-29 19:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What there to be confused about you are way to young and don't know a thing about relationship the reason you want to go out with him because you only like him nothing more the point of the relationship is that you know the person not because you like him if you went out with any guy it would NOT last because the lack of communcation in the relationship so GROW UP AND STOP CRYING OVER SOMTHING STUPID!
2006-09-29 22:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by helse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too damn young to even be thinking about guys little loan a 17 year old guy. Here in Illinois 17 is considered an adult and also statutory rape. A 17yr. old guy has no business messing with 13 yr. old child in the first place. Concentrate on your education you have years to let guys make you miserable. I know girl, you can't live with them and ya can't live without them. At your age just enjoy family, friends. and school.
2006-09-29 19:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by daneil j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DOnt go for the 17 year old. Go for guys your own age. Aks him to go with you and some friends to a movie or ask him to hang out somewhere with a group of friends. A group with male and female of course. If he starts getting closer to you or something you know that he likes you. Have one of your friends suggest that you all play truth or dare. Then after 10 minutes have someone dare you to to hold hands or kiss.
2006-09-29 21:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by Skylar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, if you like Jacob the most then fish around and see if he's got a girlfriend and if not then ask him out. Sweetie, maybe you should talk to your mom too? She has been where you are. If you would like to talk more (believe me, I know how it is. dating is confusing sometimes.) then please IM me at newcollegegirl06 ....
2006-09-29 19:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by UFCollegeGirl06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Jacob you want to hang out with him more.
2006-09-29 19:41:54 · answer #8 · answered by ValleyGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
None of the above for the present. you need to be a little older like 3 to 4 years.
2006-09-29 19:49:11 · answer #9 · answered by djsanner@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anyone remember that comedy soap called "Soap"? They always used to summarise the previous episode with a spiel that sounded just like this post, then end it by saying "Confused? you will be"
I'd concentrate on my lessons until I grew up, if I were you.
2006-09-29 19:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋