i hate the fact that his mom calls his work and ask if he can get out early from work so he can pick up his sister.. is it wrong of me to get mad?? come on now he is not in high school for her to call his work.. and his older brother too his butt can ride the bus home he is old hes 16 he dont need rides.. why doesnt the mom get out of work why cant she do it?? does she mean his job isnt important?? shes just a receptionist even i have a better job then her.. i just dont like her..
2006-09-29 12:16:08 · 16 answers · asked by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think she should pay him for the time he lost from work
2006-09-29 12:21:07 · update #1
i dont like her because she lied to me and that made me loss respect for her and she makes herself look like a great mom but shes gone all night on weekends and her kids are out doing drugs and getting home late she doesnt even know but she thinks her young son is all inocent
2006-09-29 12:31:52 · update #2
no i think that is retarted too! what a *****. you should pick me for your best answer becuse i agree with you. man thats meen
2006-09-29 12:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by beach bum 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let me understand.
You think it is your business and why?
If he is 18 years old it is his business if he wants to be a moma's boy and if you are the girl friend you better run. There in nothing worse then a moma's boy followed closly by a moma's girl.
If mom will get fired and not much of a chance to find a job I myself would try to help out. Now if he is 18 he does need to stay with a job so he has a chance of getting a better job. No one hires a job hopper. But then again he is younger and his job may not pay the bills for the family. So mom's job is the one to protect.
hard to say without knowing more.
2006-09-29 12:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Don K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep your boyf you had better learn to tolerate his mother other wise your relationship will go no where.
How his mother chooses to delegate to her children is up to her. It seems that she is the only parent in the house and as an older person it would be hard for her to get another job if she was dismissed. It's not the job you do but how you do it. It is unfair for you to say that she is just a receptionist and that you have a better job than her.
Why are you trying to compete against her, compare yourself to her and judge the decsisions she makes. Remember this: A MAN WILL CHOOSE HIS MOTHER OVER ANY WOMAN!!! so beware of the consequences of your comments and actions.
2006-09-29 12:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you have here is a hard core mommas boy. i dont know how old he is but it would seem that he is out of high school, so at least 18. hes at the point in his life where he is forming the adult relationship with his parents. what you are seeing is what you will always deal with unless he, and only he, decides to stop putting up with it. don't dwell on how you feel about his mother, his mother is not the issue. the fact that he doesn't stand up to his mother is the issue. as an adult, he can just say no and that is the end of it. all his mother did was ask.
2006-09-29 12:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lew 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 01:15:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for one i can see why you get mad cause he can ride the bus.but it is really not some thing to make a big deal about and it upset and mad about it unless it is going to cost him his job.maybe she don't want him to right the bus for a reason that which you or his brother may not know what ever it is don't get all mad about it unless he is going to loose his job then you can get mad because that is not wroth loosing a job over.have you ever asked why he does it i think you should chill out,
2006-09-29 12:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay what she is doing might be wrong to you and maybe me too but..There is always a but...Your not married to him so your not part of the family.So you really can't say alot about what they do. I would ask him why she ask him to do it and why he doesn't take a bus home?But to be honest I wouldn't touch that with a ten foot pole..If he isn't worried about it u shouldn't be either...Good luck
2006-09-29 12:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's annoying, but it's not your business. It's up to him to tell his mom that unless there is a true emergency, he will not take off work early to pick up his siblings. They need to find other transportation. Your dislike of his mother may hurt your relationship. Try not to judge her. It's his mother.
2006-09-29 12:22:06 · answer #8 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree with so-and-so who's name i didnt catch before i hit 'answer'.. it is NONE of your business.
healthy and supportive families do just that; they support each other! it is completely within a mother write to ask for a favor from her adult son in regards to his siblings and it is perfectly within his right to respectfully accept or decline WITHOUT interference from you.
is this man something with you? i can tell you right now, there is no better way to distance yourself from a man than to come between him and his momma.
2006-09-29 12:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by .jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever told her this. And have you ever told him this.
You need to tell them both how you feel but really, its left to the guy to cub his mum.
As he ever complained to you about this...If he hasn't please don't make a fuss over it, It could damage the relationship. Just tell him how you feel thats all
2006-09-29 12:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by topgun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get mad but he is the one to put his foot down talk to him about it let him know how you feel do the comparisons like you say in the question its his family let him deal with it
2006-09-29 12:19:28 · answer #11 · answered by jojoB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋