all of sudden she start coming on to me and telling me how much better she could make me feel. i just play it off but now i dont know how to treat her when i see her. by the way im not gay nor bi
2006-09-29 12:06:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Just be honest and if she made you feel uncomfortable let her know. I'm sure she'll understand and you can still be friends. If she keeps on well just tell her that you don't like her like that and nothing she does will change the way you feel for women. I'm pretty sure she'll understand.
2006-09-29 12:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by petit chat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well in a sense she is right, she could make you feel better, gay women know the right spots. But if you are not interested in that just let her know that you are not gay, and that you would like her as a friend and nothing else. She probably was just trying you out, to see if you responded to her advances. Most gay women do that to test the waters but when you tell them no, they are very understanding and most times become a true friend.
2006-09-29 12:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make a remark out of the blue when she was talking to me next time I see her If she was holding a taco bell bag I would say something like, "I've never liked tacos, just hot dogs for me".......and keep doing that until she gets the subtle hint. Then keep talking to her to befriend her and piss your b/f off and make him wonder if you and her are partners....He will get jealous, I'm sure...especially if she is gay-o. Act like you bf doesn't exist when she is around. Turn him down from sex a time or two if you two are having sex..that'll really get him to guessing.
2006-09-29 12:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by james_spader_jr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that, you do not have to run from her, just tell her. Get it out in the open if you all are going to remain friends then that will be, but don't avoid her she may take that as hard to get.
As far as your boyfriend and talking to others about it, get a counselor, the worst thing you could do to a relationship is invite another body who may want what you have or someone who wants you in on your relationship, especially when its in the going bad stage. We as women make it so easy for the loose legged woman to get in on our man and we're the one to blame.
2006-09-29 12:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at the initiating, why are you telling your neighbour secrets and techniques? You were unlucky for particular she grew to change into out to be a weirdo, yet that turned right into a mistake from the off. you should boost that fence and turn into your own relationship. clean her. She has subject matters of route and perchance misinterpret your contact with her seperately out of your spouse as something else and is now performing out.
2016-11-25 03:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must have feelings for you.. or be desparate.
just tell her you're not into her like that and you just wanted a friend to talk to.
either she'll understand and apologize, or still persue you and then you just tell her to **** off
2006-09-29 12:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by xsweethunni26x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Big deal so she's hitting on you. You should be flattered, but remind her that you are not interested in her like that. She'll get over it.
2006-09-29 15:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what would you do if it was another guy? Tell her to knock it off, and don't have anything to do with her again. She was rude and inappropriate.
2006-09-29 13:12:59 · answer #8 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's really unnecessary and inappropriate behaviour on her part...you do have the right to say no..and I'm a firm believer that you should only have to say no once...
2006-09-29 12:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is only a neighbor, avoid her like the plague.
2006-09-29 12:09:06 · answer #10 · answered by charmaine f 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋