I am seeing a wonderful guy and he loves my kids but all I think of is my kid's father but he hasnt been around for almost 2yrs- will i ever get over him?
2006-09-29 12:00:02 · 10 answers · asked by crazy_chic20012002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You will never forget him he is the father of your children. But you cant put your life on hold for someone who is not there. He will hold a special place in your heart, but it is time for you and your children to have the happiness you guys deserve. You can get over him, you just have to let yourself love someone else. You have to want it, you have to want to be with someone else, if not it will never work. It is all about strength and having the power to let go.
2006-09-29 12:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No,you wnt forget him but you will accept his loss and see him in your kids. You will be able to move forward with the new guy as long as you understand he will not replace your kids father since the time you spent with their father is now a part of who you are today and who the current b/f fell in love with. allow yourself to love this new man and dont feel guilt about doing so. you have the good memories from the kids father and they will become less important as time goes by, but you will never forget them.
2006-09-29 19:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the best for your children, you need to sort out those feelings fast. Your healthy relationship is most important for your kids and mostly YOU when your kids are grown and gone.
So this man maybe the love of your life and your "fear" of relationships [in the form of pineing for a man that you can't have] is ruining that chance. Good luck.
Its time to create a "happy family" for YOU!
2006-09-29 19:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you will.... time has a way of making things (emotions, life) change..... Allow yourself to enjoy the relationship that you currently have...look at the guy you are with, is he good to you? is he good to yourkids? was your kids father the same? Who do you see yourself better off with? With self evaluation of where you are in life, you will definately find that the answer is actually within you!
2006-09-29 19:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by twinkledrops 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can will never forget the father, its only natural to assume the biological father is the one that should be taking care of the kids with you.
2006-09-29 19:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should forget your kid's father. he is no longer thinking of you. thinking of him would take you away from other good possibilities... like the wonderful guy you are seeing now. :)
2006-09-29 19:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a wonderful g/f and i love her and her children very much but my ex wife i cant stand b/c she kicked me out with both my kids standing there crying their eyes out begging me not to leave. it takes time but like the song says if you cant be with the one you love love the one your with and you will always have a place in your heart for your babies daddy
2006-09-29 19:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get over him, but you won't forget him. And it's going to take a long, long time..
2006-09-29 19:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by xsweethunni26x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, lets see you think about him and you think he'll never be back. But you really think that he'll come back, just try to think about the present and not the future, K?
2006-09-29 19:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to you will.
2006-09-29 19:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋