i was reading a question this kid asked?

Question

he said he was 16 and messing around w/ another guy his age and having oral sex. i was surprised to see so many ppl go off on him about how young he is. i thought... i was the same age when i first started messing around, ok maybe even younger. so you mean to tell me that you guys didn't fool around and have oral sex when you were a teenager? WOW
how old were you when you had ur first sexual (even a kiss) experience w/ the same sex?

i guess it's different for the ones that didn't come out for a little while. i always knew. my first kiss was with a girl. i was 13 or 14

don't just talk or tell me it's not ok... tell me the age it happened for you. thanx

Answer 1

OK, first up. I had sex with a guy at the ripe old age of 18... Yes... I waited... But I have nothing against those who decide to try earlier. I am yet to experience my first encounter with a girl... I guess I don't have the guts to ask or to make a move. Plus I have a kid, so sometimes I feel that I shouldn't... But I really want to... One day... But, I agree with secret, we should do what feels right at the time. And those who are older shouldn't judge. We all did things we wanted to when we were young... some had sex, some did drugs, some did alcohol, some were into education.. Its ok to be you. Its ok to be the kind of person you want to be. If we were all the same and all good... Life would be really, really really, boring and no-one would want to live... Have an awesome day and good on ya secret for sticking up for your values.

Answer 2

What kills me is how people will tell a girl or boy of 16 that their too young to make the "choice" of being with someone of the same sex and to wait a few years. However, were it a 16 year old interacting with someone of the opposite sex, the most they may get is "to use protection"-if the deed has already been done.
I had my first same sex experience when I was 8, then once again when I was in high school, and I've tried to repress it until just this year. I can't lie about who I am anymore.

Answer 3

UMMMM ... I didnt have any sexual encounter till I was 19.... I wanted to wait until it ment something.. ( i know old school but that is how I was) but when I finaly did have sex for the first time it did mean something and I still wish I would have waited even longer.. because it would have ment more if I had waited until I was with my forever mate if you know what I mean... but hind site is 20 /20 ... and believe me I am not a prude or anything.. I am just as freaky as the next person.. I just believe that your body is something you give as a gift of love to someone.. because that is the last thing you have to give in a relationship to show your total devotion and love... (sappy maybe but my feelings just the same) .. Ok im an old romantic at 37... but I love deep.... and I lived throu the 80's when many of my closest friends were contracting AIDS and I got throu it without being infected... not from fear.. but because I only slept with people I knew I was going to be with a VERY long time... (no one night stands I knew everything about who I gave my body too.)
Blessings,
RiahWillow

Answer 4

I was in 6th grade with I kissed a boy and I had sex for the first time, 2 months before I turned 15. I was about 25 when I had my frist relationship with a woman.
I don't think that kid is too young. Your hormones are going crazy and that is about the age that these things happen! If you are lucky in any way!! The kids question probably upset people who are anti-gay. Its a crisis in this world - anti gayness. It threatens peoples perception of themselves to entertain the idea of homosexuality. If they are not the "straight" person that they think they are then - Who are they? If gay people have Rights that somehow diminishes a heterosexual marriage - I don't get that.
In my mind, Gay people Not having rights is the equivalent of making black people drink from separate fountains & use seperate bathrooms.

Answer 5

First male kiss 13 the guy was 24, first female kiss 18 the chick was 25, first full on sexual lebian experiance 18, i've never sexually been wit any males (no intrest to be either).

Answer 6

I started kissing in pre-kindergarten.
I remember attempting straight oral sex about 11 years old.
Mutual masturbation or solo masturbation with a friend came off and on.
I do not remember my first incounter with my homosexual experience.
I did not understand my desire until like 15 years old.
My really first intercourse experience with a female came just 5 months ago. (27 years old)

Answer 7

Sorry hun- too personal for me. All I'll say is I wish I'd waited longer. Must admit I'm suprised by some of the answers you've got. Guess I was a late bloomer!

Answer 8

My first same sex experience was when I was 23. I lost my virginity at 14. I've been bi-curious FOREVER. Mutual masturbation at 13 with same sex, but we just watched one another.

Answer 9

I was 11 with the opposite sex.
I was 15 with the same sex. Yummy.

Answer 10

We have done greater wrongs and sins than our children when we were young. Instead of repenting/ or taking up a religious life we sit in judgement over the younger generation. We have a good excuse. We say that we are helping them (from our experience) - having done every thing which is forbidden!
Who are we decieving?
We are jealous of them because now we cannot do those things - due to age, social position, opinion of others.