How do you tell a guy, hes not good in bed?

Answer 1

That's a hard one. Their ego is so fragile. I had to tell a guy once and I thought he was gonna cry. I guess use your judgment. If your not going to sleep with him again don't bother let someone else tell him but if you are maybe you can say something like we can have fun while I show you what I need in bed to satisfy me.

Answer 2

Well if u like him u don't tell him u jus try to teach him what makes u feel good by directing him and telling him yes and no when he's doing something thats da only way he can fix da problem man don't understand all women r not the same and what works with one women may not work with the next.
If u don't like him much jus get rid of him

Answer 3

are you experienced? if so then just take control and show him what you want.. he probably won't mind and would like the coaching! otherwise you can do it slowly if you don't want to hurt his ego.. give him encouragement when he does something you like (moan, say ohh i like that.. that sort of thing) and do nothing or cringe a little when he does something bad.. he'll pick up on it.. we can be trained just like dogs lol (i shouldn't be ripping on men since i am one but hey, we all sucked in bed at one point ... no ones a god their first romp).. or if you just dont' have the patience or don't care about his fragile male ego then just tell him he sucks.. and if you think he's worth the time tell him you are going to show him how to rock your world lol.. he'll only cry a little ;)

Answer 4

well that is very simple if you do not like him you let him do his thing but once he has started you say is it in yet? he will get it. but if you like this sorry sorry man then when he starts doing his thing just tell him oh baby that's feels good but lets try this. that way you can tell him what to do, and make him do what feels good with out hurting him unless your into that

Answer 5

Well Dear......................when Mr Mills fails to hit the spot, I usually reach for the Woman's Weekly that I keep handy by the side of the bed...........he usually gets the message!

Regards

Dorothy Mills (Mrs)

Answer 6

The question is not "how" so much as "when."

The only good time is after you've broken up with him -- because if/when you tell him -- the relationship is kaput.

Answer 7

is this after you told him what you liked and he was still bad? did you even tell him at all. well try telling him and showing him what you like. if he still bad after that, tell him. tell him nicely.

Answer 8

If you like him otherwise, perhaps you could give him suggestions as to the way you like things done.

Answer 9

"You are not good in bed"

Answer 10

mrs P answer is the one