2006-09-29 11:11:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Move to another area and ignore him. Attacking him will probably aggravate the situation. The best thing to do is leave him be and discuss the matter when he's sober.
2006-09-29 11:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, this thoroughly made me laught because of the fact i'm on the different component of this occasion. as quickly as I first met my husband, he did not smoke, notwithstanding all of his friends and kinfolk did, and he knew that i'm strongly against it. nicely, 5 months in the past he opened a eating place, and became very under pressure. I caught him smoking and have been given quite disenchanted. He knew how mad i became and swore he might end and might in no way smoke lower back because of the fact it would positioned a super damper in our dating. nicely, come to be certain, he did not end and have been smoking for some 3 hundred and sixty 5 days! I confronted him and he confessed and of direction i became extra mad for him hiding it from me. Did I divorce him? No, i admire him with all of my heart and would desire to not truthfully divorce him only because of the fact he became smoking. Do I choose he would not? of direction! i finished up only dropping the full component. i understand there are probable cases whilst i'm away at artwork that he has a cigarette. yet, he would not smoke whilst i'm around, and he does understand ways undesirable it quite is for him and swears he will end thoroughly as quickly as we've our first infant. stupid, i understand. yet, it comes right down to the actuality that we the two love one yet another and are not keen to divorce over some thing as stupid as smoking. He is conscious the main efficient reason i'm so adament approximately it quite is by using the well-being concerns. i understand that's not lots of an answer, yet attempt to instruct him which you do love him and do exactly not strengthen the concern.
2016-10-18 05:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by janski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A drunk can change. But if he hits you or your children when he is drunk, then you need to leave him. You cannot make him stop drinking. He will have to make that choice himself. You can remind him of what he did when he was drunk, and explain how it made you feel. Hopefully he will make the decision that he needs to quit for his family, if not it is your decision on whether it is worth it to YOU to stay in a situation that makes you so sad.
2006-09-29 11:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want a life of problems stay married to him, he will never change. Leave and get a real life Drunks are not worth it, they only get worse..
2006-09-29 11:17:39 · answer #4 · answered by larry B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the house and if you have kids, take them with you. If he does this on a regular basis, you need to leave him, if he is willing to get help. This situation can turn into an abusive situation.
2006-09-29 11:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the house.
2006-09-29 11:16:58 · answer #6 · answered by almostdead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a benedryl and tell him he will feel better in the morning. Or go to your moms. Whatever.
2006-09-29 11:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by emmadropit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him and never allow him back in your life. Let someone else put up with him.
2006-09-29 11:21:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋